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i want to learn how to read body language.

i took a psycology class and was really hopeing that we would go over this but we dont. all we did was emotions and basic facial expresstions (sad, happy, mad, etc.). i was wondering if anyone could teach me how to read a persons body language or if they have a good website that can explain this to me really well.

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zimbobwa offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years ago (1 minute after post)

thanks help bot but nobody is doing that anytime soon

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katieofcourse offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
US | 2 years ago (2 minutes after post)

hahahaa

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juice offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
GB | 2 years ago (4 minutes after post)

Theres probably some good books you could read.. and teach yourself.

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Vegito offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Winter Park, FL, US | 2 years ago (6 minutes after post)

its not hard to learn at all

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zimbobwa offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years ago (7 minutes after post)

juice wrote:
Theres probably some good books you could read.. and teach yourself.

do you know of any good books?

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GB | 2 years ago (10 minutes after post)
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Southfield, MI, US | 2 years ago (11 minutes after post)

why do you want to do that that is boring pick something more interesting

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zimbobwa offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years ago (13 minutes after post)

mibriggs wrote:
why do you want to do that that is boring pick something more interesting

well you may not think its interesting but other ppl like me may think it is. i mean i like it because i would like to know what ppl are thinking about by just looking at them.

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james0407 offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
York, Q5, GB | 2 years ago (15 minutes after post)

human interaction isn’t really that complicated, you have an instinct for a reason, it’s usually right, go with that and find out why you feel that.
the best thing you can do is watch people, people who are close and those who are not will behave differently, just watch, you’ll soon pick it up.
though yeah, books can help too.

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Southfield, MI, US | 2 years ago (21 minutes after post)

i think it is just a stuid myth a person can be look mad but then be fine so there is no such thing as body language

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sothief offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Phoenix, AZ, US | 2 years ago (34 minutes after post)

mibriggs, isn’t that what acting is?
And for the most part that is real.

i agree with james, you can learn alot from watching people.
i took a Comm. Arts class and we did a whole chapter on
Nonverbal communications, maybe you should try a class?

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Dan TL offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
La Mirada, CA, US | 2 years ago (53 minutes after post)

Acceptionally useful skill that is. Well I know a little…

Every person has their own normal (default) behavior; When you are talking to them and they are telling the truth, Some people look you in the eye and cross the arms or their in their pockets, now if you remeber that and you see that the behavior is dramaticly diffrent (their not looking at you in the eye, slight pauses, doing somthing with their hands) They are nervous, ussaly hiding somthing (lie) …. thats about all I know.

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An Unknown Location | 2 years ago (1 hour, 32 minutes after post)

ok some helpful stuff here keep the comments coming

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els offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
San Diego, CA, US | 2 years ago (14 hours, 46 minutes after post)

Do an acting class, but not one that just concentrates on reading lines, one that uses tools to help you think about how you would portray a character, because that is all in the body language.

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 years ago (19 hours, 36 minutes after post)

You could take an interpersonal communications class. That class is all about communication with the body. I took that class last year and it was very insightful and fun. Good Luck! :)

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (7 months after post)

ummm, im looking myself. The guy who mentioned the default behavior was correct. And you know when some one leans back on a chair with their fingers laced to the back of their heads while leaning back. It means pretty much the person is extremely confident, and in ways cocky

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