Love help: my mum gone crazy!

bugejach

Balzan, 00, MT

my mum gone crazy!

why would she do like that??

my mum s been acting like this from when i was maybe 12… is she jeoluous or need help???

everthing i do is wrong if i have friends she says they are bad.. she dont like them when they invite me at their house and my friends none of them have ever entered my house but my brother s yes.. she closes every door at her house because she was saying that we steal her money.. my dad dont speak to me because she was saying to him i was doing drugs and i dont even smoke!!!!!!!! can u imagine!! she never bought me any preety clothes or something i never went out with my friends to the discos because of that and never was letting out for long and all my friends were! and then all my friends abandond me and made fool of me!!! i dont even have 1 or half aq friend!!! im 20 years right now and im working i can stay late out.. when i blow my hair straight she hates it and tells me its ugly she washes my clothes after 2 months or so especcialy the white ones and after she says i stained them…

she hangs out 1 towel for me and hhas to be there r4 months to remove it .. i never use it after i wash.,. i d rather stay wet after i was than use it..

im the only girl in the family i have 2 brothers.. she hates her sister too.. and doesnt want me to talk to her.. but my aunty loves me.. even she hates the wifes of my fathers brothers and never wanted me to talk to them but i speak 2 them and they know very well that im not like her.. i live with her right now the only thing that keeps me here is that apartments are very expensive.. i have a boyfriend for 9 months and when i ask her to let him come to the house she never wants him and doesnt even know him !!!

i dont know what to say about her

i give her money like my brother once in a month
i love her and dont know what to do
all i need is help

i cannot take my bf out of his house because he s happy there im not selfish.

she even tells me that i respect other people not her

please i neeed some advise or help

cha,20, malta

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animal 29 #
Norfolk, VA, US | 2 years ago (50 minutes after post)

Wow, sounds like my sister! Seriously! My mother is the same way towards my sister. My mothers sisters and she dont get along either She only gets along with guys. My mother used to try to steal my sisters boyfriends. She beat my sister growing up, but not me.

You need to get away from her. I know you dont want to hear this, but you cant change her. She is what she is. Continue to love her, but get away from her house. Its time you gained some control over your own life.

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sherryn 27 #
Brookdale, 08, AU | 2 years ago (4 hours, 4 minutes after post)

animal is right……… in the meantime……… you are working buy your own pretty clothes and do your own washing, whats wrong with you at your age expecting your mother to do for you like a child?? Seriously, maybe this is why she has gone cold on you, she wants you to grow up!

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~Shie~ 11 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 2 years ago (12 hours, 32 minutes after post)

i feel for you hun.. my mother too treated me this way.. and still does at this very moment.. im going to be 33 on monday… growing up.. my mother always told me that she hated girls.. and as i grew up.. my brother got everything.. me.. i was cinderella and when i cried.. i got beat.. to this day.. she is always trying to tell me how good my brother is.. blah blah blah.. she is always trying to compare us and makes the points in which it shows that he is better… i cant stand it.. my suggestion is… you are 20.. you have the right to move.. ask your aunt if you can move in with her… or get some friends and get an apartment together.. this is only going to hurt you mentally more if you stay… i myself.. moved out when i was 16 because the mental abuse was something that i couldnt deal with anymore… and trust me.. it effects you the rest of your life.. so you need to stop it now… while you are still young enough to escape..

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jean198 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (4 months, 3 weeks after post)

you just gotta get out of there do whats right for you get a career get a good job so you can support yourself and don’t have to relie on any body , until then stick it out, i feel like i have to creep around my mum she is bitter , try not to let it get to you and think of your goals and most of all learn from it so one day you can have the life you deserve and appriciate, i know its hard and most of all imbarrasing and you feel helpless but its **** just do whats right for you and stay sane