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aversion

so i’ve been thinking (as usual) about why I waste so much time on the internet
yesterday i spent about 26 hours playing an Adobe flash-based RPG (woke up 3 PM Friday, went back to sleep 6 PM Saturday) and not getting any work done
So here’s what i think the cause may be: i think it may be an aversion to the complexity of the real world
in an RPG or some other online pursuit all the goals are clearly defined, there’s no ambiguity and the challenges are obvious
in the real world there is more ambiguity, a less direct link from actions to results… it’s harder to decide what to do
it’s not as if i literally have difficulty understanding the real world, i’m smart, but i think that subconsciously i don’t like the ambiguity or confusion in the real world and pursue virtual goals as an escape from that

why am i saying this here, what response do i expect? none in fact i’d rather i don’t get any
i just wanted to say it “out loud”

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happylaxman offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 36 #
Denver, CO, US | 2 years ago (2 days, 1 hour after post)

I know what you are doing here!

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Doha, 01, QA | 2 years ago (2 days, 9 hours after post)

the sum of the two consecutive odd numbers is 66. let n be smaller number

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For You Bulgaria offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Sofia, 42, BG | 1 year, 11 months ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

yea i m caid of like that but the real world has a lot of plejors and they ar laot nicear to feal and expiriance then the rpg shuar thr rpg portal is safe but the strugal for life in th real world meks us go raith
so wht i m seyng is that you can stiil pley games and go on the web but you shud comunicate wheat peole from the “out said”

good luck:P

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For You Bulgaria offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Sofia, 42, BG | 1 year, 11 months ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

Elemental Evil wrote:
yea i m caind of like that but the real world has a lot of plejors and they ar laot nicear to feal and expiriance then the rpg shuar thr rpg portal is safe but the strugal for life in th real world meks us go raith so wht i m seyng is that you can stiil pley games and go on the web but you shud comunicate wheat peole from the “out said”good luck:P

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ScreaminglyWonderful offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
Wilmington, NC, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (2 months, 2 weeks after post)

I know you don’t want responses but I think it’s a form of escapism.

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