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Should I tell my friend that the girl he likes said she won’t go out with him?

My friend really likes this girl and he asked her out but she said maybe. I talked to her later and she said she probably won’t go out with him and maybe usually means no because she doesn’t like him that way anymore (they went out before).

Also, any time that i’ve seen her (only a few times) she acts like ME and here have been best friends and she got my number (cause I took her home with my friend) today cause her mom said I had to call her when I got home cause I got in an accident at her house so just to make sure i’m alright I guess, and she’s started calling me and i barely know her and she talks about her lossing her virginity and all her dates and boyfriends and stuff….does that mean she likes me?

So the point of this all is to ask if I should tell my friend. We’re pretty close so I don’t know if I should tell him about her not liking him and her calls to me (I don’t want to go out with her or be her friend) or if I should just let him have that hope that she will say yes later. Whats the best thing to do?

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~Shie~ offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 2 years ago (7 minutes after post)

its better to be upfront with him…. i would definately let him know..

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Is ignorance really bliss? How about in relationships.

My friend really likes this girl and he asked her out but she said maybe. I talked to her later and she said she probably won’t go out with him and maybe usually means no because she doesn’t like him that way anymore (they went out before).

Also, any time that i’ve seen her (only a few times) she acts like ME and here have been best friends and she got my number (cause I took her home with my friend) today cause her mom said I had to call her when I got home cause I got in an accident at her house so just to make sure i’m alright I guess, and she’s started calling me and i barely know her and she talks about her lossing her virginity and all her dates and boyfriends and stuff….does that mean she likes me?

So the point of this all is to ask if I should tell my friend. We’re pretty close so I don’t know if I should tell him about her not liking him and her calls to me (I don’t want to go out with her or be her friend) or if I should just let him have that hope that she will say yes later. Whats the best thing to do?

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