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What do you think is the reason behind humans being unable to interact with each other nowadays?

it seems like there is no way i can go onto help.com without half the posts being about how to win the love of so and so, or how the user has fallen out with a family member, friend or co worker or how they are so depressed and disappointed with the world. why is it that we are unable to be completely honest and fair to each other, and why do we hate so many people for so many little things? Why are we all so secretly afraid of fulling knowing each other or making ourselves truly known to the ones we love?

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Johno2090 offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Aberdeen, T5, GB | 2 years ago (14 minutes after post)

I dont think its got anything to do with current times i think its always been around just now we have more media and readily accessible forms of communicating where you can say what you want without people ever really knowing who you are.

I think its better people get things off their chests instead of keeping them locked up! maybe thats why were starting to live longer!

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Goodhelp offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Copenhagen, 06, DK | 2 years ago (40 minutes after post)

Well you never know if what you say might be turned against you somehow. I think thats one of the reasons, and I get the feeling that most people dont wanna get involved whit too meany people, I heard somebody say that we arnt designed to relate to more than 150 people.

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cuteskwirro offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years ago (44 minutes after post)

that’s the thing… we’re so afraid and suspicious of other people nowadays… i can understand why there is the necessity to do this but it is such a pity…

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Goodhelp offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Copenhagen, 06, DK | 2 years ago (1 hour, 11 minutes after post)

I remmember I saw a sciens show some time ago focusing on what goes on in the head and they said that now, the way they tried to understand humans, was to imagine what would a hunter/gatherer and animals who has to surviwe on a day to day basis do, and the things that gives the best odds of surviving and reproduction are stored like computerprograms in our brain and are activated if a situation acures. Thats why things that seem iradical on second thort become the things we do. We are simply not designed for liveing in the kinda society that we have where the problms are much different from when our brain evolved. I know this dosen’t give eny concrete answers but I hope it gives an understanding of how things might be.

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 years ago (1 hour, 15 minutes after post)

as someone says, to be very open to many people means showing our being vulnerable. and that is really risky.

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~*Confused*With*Love offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years ago (4 hours, 53 minutes after post)

I think it’s just an excuse for people to feel sorry for others that can’t get any help anywhere else.

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AKITHMA offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years ago (1 day, 1 hour after post)

perhaps you need to log into ,I DONT NEED HELP.COM..some people suffer you know like the lord

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Goodhelp offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Copenhagen, 06, DK | 2 years ago (1 day, 3 hours after post)

?????????what?????????

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cuteskwirro offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years ago (4 days, 15 hours after post)

i’m not trying to say that suffering is the result of the sufferer’s own fault akithma, i’m just wondering how we got to this point where it seems like none of us can get along with each other.

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