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Quitters never win and winners never quit!

Let me be very clear, no matter how much money you have, what status you have in life, LIFE IS TUFF. It does not change for the rich man, poor man, the begger man or thief. People think, getting a new lover, changing addresses, changing jobs, etc. will make life easier…The “grass is greener on the other side,” is the attitude of lots of people. And, they make the change, quess what, same World, same problems, same headaches, etc… follow them. Folks life is about solving problems, NOT RUNNING FROM THEM…

All people have problems which excludes no one, poor man, rich man, begger man, thief, they have problems. It not the problems we have, it is how we react to those problems. But, by all means, WE DO NOT QUIT. WE DO NOT GIVE UP. We work thru those problems. For richer, for poorer, sickness and in health, people take the vows to stay together for life. When things get tuff, you have too “tuffin up!” But, so many want to run away. They run away and guess what, those problems run with you.

In my life, my God has NEVER run from me. This is the one constant in my life. He gives me the strength to bear the burdens and there are many.

So, as my old coach once said, “when the going gets tuff, the tuff gets going!” So, DO NOT GIVE UP…….DO NOT BE A QUITTER…. If you never quit, you will never be a loser!

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timm offline Unverified User #
AU | 2 years ago (1 minute after post)

thank you

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AKITHMA offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years ago (7 minutes after post)

AMEN BROTHER AMEN

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Shenzhen, 30, CN | 2 years ago (19 minutes after post)

couldnt agree more

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 years ago (42 minutes after post)

thanks for the encouragement, coach. hugs.

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Makati, 53, PH | 2 years ago (54 minutes after post)

yeah. gud saying

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Qzzzz offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Montpelier, MS, US | 2 years ago (1 hour, 16 minutes after post)

Thrax, you break me up…lol

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I left offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 491 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years ago (1 hour, 29 minutes after post)

Sir, I am going to write this. I like what you say. I had a professor that I loved a lot. He told me he would kill himself if I was not with him. I never unpacked my things. I culd not bear the thought of him crying, although I saw it a lot. I have had a bad feeling and it was hell. Everything he told me the relatoinship was not about - sigh I worry it really was. He said “it’s not about how you look, it;’s not about what you do professionally” . I needed his approval so badly.

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I left offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 491 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years ago (1 hour, 30 minutes after post)

Was he an exploiter or merely a bad relationship?

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I left offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 491 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years ago (1 hour, 34 minutes after post)

sure. you are right. I get followed too much though. Perhaps this isn’t the right forum for me.

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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years ago (2 hours, 29 minutes after post)

Thanks for the reminder Coach.

Ya know I’ve come to understand the grass is greener theory. “The grass is greener on the other side of the fence”. Well, ya know… sometimes the grass IS GREENER on the other side of the fence… but it’s only because they use MORE bullsh!t

Have a great day and bright blessings~
Richard

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Qzzzz offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Montpelier, MS, US | 2 years ago (2 hours, 40 minutes after post)

Richard,

LMAO…that was hilarious…very true my friend…

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Fort Collins, CO, US | 2 years ago (8 hours, 8 minutes after post)

Pen, (formerly Sir Pencilhead with an Eraser)I am shaking my index finger at you, you just can’t see it.
Can’t agree more, coach.

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Montpelier, MS, US | 2 years ago (10 hours, 34 minutes after post)

Soxs, your post..did not understand sugar

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~Shie~ offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 2 years ago (11 hours, 3 minutes after post)

i have always found that no matter how far you try to run from you problems… they always seem to follow… and until you solve them… whats the sense of trying to avoid them…. ~sigh~.. i wish it could be as easy as running…. but then… i would have lived in soooooooooooooooooooo many places already…

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Montpelier, MS, US | 2 years ago (12 hours, 4 minutes after post)

Lil..lol..understood my friend

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Gloversville, NY, US | 2 years ago (12 hours, 8 minutes after post)

Hahahahahahaha… good thing you do… hahahahaha… im so tired.. i had to reread what i wrote…

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Montpelier, MS, US | 2 years ago (13 hours, 38 minutes after post)

I’m checking out…Happy T day everyone!

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An Unknown Location | 2 years ago (14 hours, 58 minutes after post)

Thank God for Qzzzz and Rich..the 2 that let me know I am NOT crazy for thinking the way I do..

I get to thinking..with so many people doing it THIS way, am I crazy for saying you should try it THAT way..then The Coach and the Life Coach come along..and I feel Ready for the Fourth Quarter.

Thanks , Guys..

Happy Thanksgiving…the last (SO far) uncorrupted holiday.

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Qzzzz offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Montpelier, MS, US | 2 years ago (14 hours, 59 minutes after post)

AK, coming from a fellow athlete like yourself, that means a lot…Happy T Day also brother…

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 years ago (15 hours, 1 minute after post)

Wow, let’s see who’s still standing tomorrow :)You two are tough.

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Gloversville, NY, US | 2 years ago (15 hours, 21 minutes after post)

nikko wrote:
Wow, let’s see who’s still standing tomorrow :)You two are tough.

hahahahahahaahah….

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 years ago (21 hours, 48 minutes after post)

lol

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Montpelier, MS, US | 2 years ago (1 day, 1 hour after post)

? Did not understand Nikko comment…did you Lil

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 years ago (1 day, 1 hour after post)

Richard and you are known to be life coaches and that you two are tough to have remained that way despite bad times. :) i think it was meant to be a sweet comment from her.

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Montpelier, MS, US | 2 years ago (1 day, 1 hour after post)

Oh, good…Now, I will have a good day…yeah right…lol…Started typing, Happy T-Day Lil..but, that does not work…lol..will say, Happy Day for Lil…

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 years ago (1 day, 1 hour after post)

weehhheeee, it’s a happy plain day for me my dear friend Q. :) lol
cheers anthrax, we’ll go for the next glass. :)

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Montpelier, MS, US | 2 years ago (1 day, 1 hour after post)

Anthrax, always the good sense of humor…LMAO…

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Montpelier, MS, US | 2 years ago (1 day, 1 hour after post)

Be sure to take your tomato juice and advil…

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 years ago (1 day, 4 hours after post)

Thank you Qzzzz :)

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Gloversville, NY, US | 2 years ago (1 day, 14 hours after post)

Qzzzz wrote:
Oh, good…Now, I will have a good day…yeah right…lol…Started typing, Happy T-Day Lil..but, that does not work…lol..will say, Happy Day for Lil…

yup yup… thankyou soooo much… hope your thanksgiving went well..

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Jacksonville, FL, US | 2 years ago (2 days, 12 hours after post)

Quay: It is Lynne, from another site. I thought I told you that I was moving and would be out of touch for a few days, if I didn’t, I am so sorry. That was nearly two weeks ago, my home computer at the new place still isn’t hooked up for internet access. Now I find myself visiting my mom for Thanksgiving. Fortunately, she has a computer and I visited the other site, saw you had “excused” me. My time there is about to expire anyway. Ironically, I am responding to a “don’t be a quitter” speach, but unfortunately, you gave up on me. That’s OK, and I completely understand. I just want you to know that I would NEVER just not reply, especially when someone had been as kind as you had. You couldn’t possibly have known that because you don’t really know me. I wish you well, my friend. I am sure you are doing others a great justice by being here. Best of luck to you in ALL your endeavors!

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Montpelier, MS, US | 2 years ago (3 days after post)

Lynne, go to your shoutbox. Left you a message.

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Fort Collins, CO, US | 2 years ago (3 days, 5 hours after post)

Hey Q, this was a good post to read. Encouraging though I think I am just in a down mood right now. I think there are many ways to lose other then to quit. You can lose so much in life and about yourself before you quit. I don’t plan on quitting any time soon (I’m not allowed to lol), but I am afraid that the question of whether to continue losing so many things and keep trying or to just quit before I can lose any more always haunts me.

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Montpelier, MS, US | 2 years ago (4 days, 6 hours after post)

JoJo, it ain’t easy my friend for any of us….Life is a beach sometimes, but we must keep going….Left you a message in your shout my friend….Keep in touch…everyone here loves you and is praying for you…

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Montpelier, MS, US | 2 years ago (4 days, 6 hours after post)

Thanks Sophie…those were some good days…

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