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hmmm, as cliche as is sounds… you have to “follow your heart.” well maybe your mind, not your heart. YOu just have to sit down and think about what will be the best for you. There must be something your leaning towards more…

I think you should forget about it go for a nice long walk tire yourself out and the first thing that leaps to your head to really do , do it. right now you are over thinking it pros and cons when you are tired what you really want to do just comes out.

If you think it is moving too fast, then maybe you shouldn’t do it, if you are not ready. But, you should also think of your future… What would be best for you in the long run. And if you plan on moving back anyway… then what’s a bit sooner? And, if you choose to come back to Ottawa (go sens go), and you don’t like it, you can return to BC, no?

It’s really something you will have to figure out yourself. I wish you the best of luck :-)

Here are a few questions for you. What would be your motivation if you decided to stay in Vancouver? And what would be motivating you to go back home right now? Because you know you shouldn’t be letting fear or insecurity guide you in the choices you have to make. Go for what really stimulates you. If you really feel like being back in Ottawa right now, then that’s what you should do. But of course, this may not be the case. Follow your gut feeling.
Oh, and trust how you feel when you wake up in the morning after a good night’s sleep. That’s when the answers to our questions are the clearest.
:)

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Muzikfrk88 wrote:
hmmm, as cliche as is sounds… you have to “follow your heart.” well maybe your mind, not your heart. YOu just have to sit down and think about what will be the best for you. There must be something your leaning towards more…

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Sounds like you’re leaning towards Ottawa… Seems like you can take the job and later go back to University during a sabatical leave and possibly even start your business there. As far as being afraid that you will end up doing no more than computer work for the rest of your life, well you know that is a possibility but only if you allow it! It’s all up to you. Don’t let your fears hold you back. You have the will power and can do whatever you choose with your life.
I hope you realize how fortunate you are. Please, just remember to never let your fears or insecurities decide for you. Take control of your life.
You are still young, healthy, energetic (Right?). Anything’s possible!
:)

Life is a constant change, nothing stays the same. Experience in life awaits you. Nothing ventured nothing gained. You can always have options.

sounds like oure over thinking…you should calm down and take a breath…do you have to make a decision today? sleep on it foro a few nights you sound smart you will know what yo want to do ultimately.

Ive been in a similar situation myself. one thing I always find helps is pull out the old piece of paper two pieces for this, and list pros and cons of tangible and intangible and see which decision comes out on top. One other thing I’d consider is discussing with the employer the possibility of on the job training to learn the skill you lack. Sure it sounds like a great job but in my book itd be an extra ten brownie points if they are willing to strengthen what already sounds like a strong employee.

i agree with phantom..and really you shouldnt ask us for this advice its your life, i understand you want closure to your decision..but i bet youve alrdy made your decision deep down. Go with it, let your heart be your guide.