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My best friend asked me out!

My best guy friend (Michael) asked me out on Wednesday. I didn’t know what to do. Please what should I do i really dont like him like he likes me. I don’t know what to do.

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Shie offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 182 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (55 minutes after post)

you need to be upfront and honest with him.. tell him the truth.. respect is the key here.. tell him how you feel.. that you like him as a friend only… and that is what you want from him.. he will understand..

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Dan TL offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 236 #
La Mirada, CA, US | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (57 minutes after post)

Tell hime that. He likes you but you don’t like him that same way… Just tell him you like him a lot as a friend (wich is why he’s bestfriend) but you dont see him as a boyfriend, hes like a big brother to you. Tell him you value your friendship, so you dont want to risk anything by taking this odd step for you.

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dietquizen offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 11 minutes after post)

They do say you should marry your best friend though.

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eqspike offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
US | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 14 minutes after post)

Tell him that you are flattered, but you need to be honest, and that you don’t share those feelings. Tell him you hope very much that he’ll respect that and your friendship can continue, because he means a lot to you as a friend. Then just try and be light and casual about things. If it doesn’t seem like a huge over dramatic deal to you, he will be able to make it less of a big over dramatic deal to him.

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fun_cool_rocking_gir offline Unverified User #
Paris, A8, FR | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (1 week, 3 days after post)

DUDE that sucks im in the exact same situation and im freaking out!!!
urgg i just told him it would be weird dating him and that we are better as friends and then i said i would help him find a way better girl and he told me in his opinion girls dont get any better!! :(
*** i love him so much as a friend urg it sucks
good luck to you!!

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