Love help: I know I have posted a lot of things about different guys, but why cant i find this? - Help.com

Well-give it time, you never know with Fate–it happens when the time is right, unexpected. and then it hits you like a ton of bricks lol

You will find someone you like, just give it some time ^^
World is plenty of good things. It’s like a box of chocolate, you take one at a time, you never know what it tastes like, but eventually, you will find someone that will really care about you and give you the love you are looking for, don’t loose hope

Don’t let your heart get broken, but don’t sit and wait forever–because then nothing will happen. If something’s going to happen it will when your not paying attention.

i like to think of myself as how you just described… and if im here, i hope there ar others like me… maybe youll find someone.

Hey man–I met my soul mate, now together 2 years on talkcity.com lol

You are good enough, don’t ever doubt yourself, keep confident–

its kind of a game. some people fake being nice, and carring, but only want one thing. I can see through it in guys.. probably because i am one. hmmm… you can tell how someone really is by how they treat others, that they shouldnt really care about.

Then you first need to work on that. If you aren’t happy with yourself, you can’t be happy with someone else. Take care of you first, and the rest will fall into place. Being in a relationship is not the most important thing in life.

Listen up babe-you’re a beautiful girl and you’re natural, you’re not some fake boobed, fake haired airhead. Self love is more intense, before you love someone else-you have to love you.

Sounds like you discribed a very nice young man, He is out there i bet you. Its kind of odd how the one we really want is the one who is so rare to find to us, just hang in there Im still looking, ive been looking for someone for decades but im not giving up.

i describe myself that way

A true ’soul mate?’ likes you for who you are. Flaws and facets. But, it is really hard for someone to truly love a person for hating them selves… Are you an active environmentalist? Odd question, I know. The reason I ask is that in my experience (which is pretty formidable in this field) I noticed that a lot of the activists suffer from depression, perform SI and generally do not like them selves very much. Weird. And I was wondering why that was…

You need to be able to describe your self in detail and like the description. Can you describe your self? Add a descriptive blurb in your profile… That is what a blurb is in this case by the way.

just dont put anything too personal if you do that.

So do I physco, I feel as if no one will ever take an intrest in me. I worry Im going to live my whole life alone and never feel what love is. That is just thinking negative, so I want this feeling that everyone describes so amazing so im NEVER going to give up, if you give up then its %100 that you wont find him. If you keep up there is a chance you will find him, small chance or big chance… a chance is a chance… dont give up.

Take care

my guy is almost all that (except emo….y do u want a emo? dont answer my question, but i was a lil confuzled at that part) , my boi is HOT, funny, protective, loving, but again, HES ALLLLLLLLLLLLLLL MINE! lol :)

this isnt a datin site
xx

I have cool hair don’t you see? I already love you, i’d move to tyler to be with you if it weren’t for angela.

kayla your a real special person and whoever doesnt want to be with you and do all they can to keep you happy is stupid. one day you will find the perfect boy who will love you with all he has.

First, I would like too point out that my intent was for you to describe your self in great detail to YOUR SELF… If you want to post that description then, yes, edit out the personal stuff.

Second, no that was not a good enough description. You need to write down all of your like that you can think of. All the dislikes you can think of. All of your accomplishments. All your failures. All your dreams and how close you are to achieving them. Your exercise and eating habits. And any miscellaneous things I missed.

Then you go through that list and look at everything you want to keep and that which you think you should change. One item or two at a time you spend 3 weeks forcing your self to change. Do not try to do too much at once or it will be disparaging and make it seem hopeless.

I have done this and it really makes you see things about your self. I found that asking friends what is good about me helps. If they are really good friends you can also ask them what bugs them the most about you. I hope this helps.

We all have failed dreams and stuff, I used to have strait B’s but now i have i don’t know.. barely passing. Nobody likes them selves, but i like you, you’re fun, playful, not to serious and a good person. 125 lbs and 5′4? I’m 180 lbs and 5′7, i’m fat you’re not fat. I love a girl that eats when ever you’re hungry, thats the only complaint with angela, i’ve only seen her eat once.

I swear if i were in tyler.

Don’t kill yourself, i need to exercise to..

Just eat lite stuff like salads and fruits, maybe try vegitearien

Lol please don’t i’ll miss you to much.

I’d ask you out.

I know, maybe later though.

I got a hair cut, can you see it?

Xx_physco_treehugger wrote:
thanks i think

You’re welcome… you’re my back up, just joking, i’m sure you don’t want to be a back up girl.

That what i thought, i got a hair cut today, see?

Xx_physco_treehugger wrote:

[KatyKins wrote:
]this isnt a datin site
xx

umm seriously if you dont wnan read things baotu datign and what not dont read my posts… okay this is a help site. they are HELPING me with being comfortable with myself. If you dont lik it back off and leave me and my posts alone thank you.

Its not just reading about it thought is it?!