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i like this girl alot and she likes me alot too.

we have fun talkin and are becoming good friends first just tryin to understand eachother not tryin to rush into anything. i like everything about her. she is smart( she actually turned down Southern Cal to stay in Georgia), a soccer player so she is very fit, she gets me to want to exercise more and go have fun, she isnt one of those push over girls that do watever the guy wants, and her smile and eyes are unbelievable, i cant helped but smile when she looks at me.

the problem….she has an agressive style of flirting. she acts like she doesnt want me to think she is some girl i will walk over which i would never do. she trys to act tough for no reason. she will ask me to do somthing for her at work or what ever and when i say ok she says “you better or uma kick yo @$$.” ok she is just playin around those times but other times out of the blue she will walk pass miss and trip me up while um carryin somthin turn around and be like do somthin. blah blah

ok i dont care when she hits me cuse its not like she tryin to hurt somebody, cause she just flirtin, but the way she does it turns me off. i dont wanna be in a relationship wit eventhough we playin she gotta punch me ever 10 seconds. i just wanna chill and talk to her str8 up somtimes and try to stay calm when she do dat stuff cause it is gettin on my **** nerves……I JUST WANNA KNOW HOW DO I TELL HER I DONT LIKE DAT CRAP ALL DA TIME WITHOUT AKIN HER FEEL BAD ABOUT IT???

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kyliejohsnon_1 offline Unverified User #
Verona, WI, US | 2 years ago (7 minutes after post)

you could tell her u like her ALOT, which you do, but tell her u don’t like it when she does that stuff to you. Try to say it really nice and make sure you say that you like her. Just try that.

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glicher2 offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 21 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years ago (8 minutes after post)

okay i think your asking the right guy
o.k. so she hits you every 10 sec. shes a tom-boy so what she has to turn you on ;)
and thats a good feelin’ right?

anyways i am getting off topic so tell her to Plese stop hurting you and to stop showing off to her friends

-jason s.

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kittykatkate92 offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Tulare, CA, US | 2 years ago (11 minutes after post)

Here’s the deal. She does it to show you she has control. It just means she has been in a relationship that maybe she wasn’t in control and the guy walked all over her. Just tell her you care, and to stop please. Also make sure she knows she has the control, or that it is equal.

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tae offline Verified User (2 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Conyers, GA, US | 2 years ago (14 minutes after post)

thanks you guys especially kittykatkate…she was in a relationship wit dis guy when she lived in Michigan dat was a dead beat and when she moved to Georgia he was getting all mad and yelling and screaming when she wanted to break up. she said it made her feel bad somtimes.

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kittykatkate92 offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Tulare, CA, US | 2 years ago (18 minutes after post)

Well, see you knew the answer the whole time, it just take someone else to put it together. lol

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