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so i just got out of a 2 year relationship.

i was with him since i was 16 years old. we have been through hell and back. unfortunately, we both messed up and things became physical. i finally after 2 years left him. i moved on quickly with a guy that i fell for hard and fast. we were perfect together but lately, things have been weird. he was acting completly different to me so i investigated. i went on his email and found emails between him and another girl talking about stuff that he shouldn’t be. when i confronted him about it, he said that he set it up to see if he could trust me with his password. i don’t believe it because its kind of ironic. i don’t know what i should do because i’m crazy about him but i’m too old for this high school BS.

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Barbyman online Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 30 #
Liston, 02, AU | 1 year ago (3 minutes after post)

dump him you are young ,move on and next time not so quick with falling in love again…

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*lilies offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 444 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (6 minutes after post)

you are crazy about this guy but you know that he has lied to you. definitely not worth it. it would be difficult but you can make it. get away from him asap and you’ll meet someone so better.

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ATVlover06 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Gainesville, TX, US | 1 year ago (12 minutes after post)

I agree with you two, lilies and slimline2. You need to dump that man asap. Next time take it easy. Good luck!

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Golden Arrow offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Indianapolis, IN, US | 1 year ago (13 minutes after post)

treat it as a jury on a trial… if there is a doubt in your mind, dump him… next time, dont fall in love with a guy… Fall for a MAN, they will treat you a lot better ;)

Also, speaking of drama, Emails and such are personal things… how would you like it if he looked in your personal diary, or if he was sniffing around in your “business” Think about things like that, you might come to find that a situation like that can be avoided if both parties cooperate. but then again I see you point of view too, its a good thing that you found out… dont worry, your young, hes not your first love and he wont be your last… Good Luck Willard, whatever your choice may be.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (16 minutes after post)

If he is cheating… and you are sure about it dump him.

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m.polo. offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Germantown, WI, US | 1 year ago (22 minutes after post)

I think he’s quick on his feet for coming up for that reply. But.. my boyfriend cheated on me and I believed all his lies until i found ONE whole. By the time I found the whole I was so deep into our relationship that it hurt really badly to end it. But, he has since been with two other girls and cheated on them both. So, once a cheater, always a cheater. Just remember that. You have to like yourself more than you like him if you want to be happy.

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Wallingford, CT, US | 1 year ago (19 hours, 23 minutes after post)

thanks everyone- i will take what everyone has said in stride.

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