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This is really bothering me.

My ex- girlfriend and I broke up and decided to be friends but I think that the breakup was sorta one sided, that one side being me, i kinda pushed for it. She is still crazy for me. I saw her the other day and we kinda hooked up, I felt terrible because I didnt want to hurt her. Now there is this other girl, who is a good friend of mine and I havent quite gotten over feelings I had for her. I thought I had gotten over them but she started to creep back into my mind while I was with my girlfriend. (I posted something about that before) Now I stand at a fork in the road and don’t knowwhat to do. Any help?

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~Shie~ offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 1 year, 12 months ago (5 hours, 19 minutes after post)

yeah.. choose one…

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glicher2 offline Verified User (2 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 21 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 12 months ago (19 hours, 8 minutes after post)

ha ha ha lil_

anyways chosse the one u justed hooked up with that you broke up with before
( in a nutshell choose you frist gf )

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~Shie~ offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 1 year, 12 months ago (23 hours, 45 minutes after post)

yeah but.. i have always had this thing of going back to an ex… and for the first few weeks.. things are great…. then the old self of that ex came back to haunt the relationship… so now…. my thoughts are…. an ex is your ex for a reason.. why go back through all of that crap again… just move on…

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heather* offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (1 week, 2 days after post)

Maybe you should make a chart. I know this sounds stupid, but you could make a list for both of them and find out exactly what you like about them and sort your mind out.

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