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My bf dumped me. My boyfriend dont care or talks to me anymore. I think this is really the end for us. This is how i got dumped. I couldnt stop feeling sad..how can i move on?
I just HAVE to ask… why did you tag this ‘list of spongebob squarepants episodes’?
And, of course, there is no good way to get over a relationship. Only time can heal, etc, etc… what you need to concentrate on now is remember all the other good things you have in your life, and keeping your mind and self busy. You need to spend time with friends, see lots of movies, pamper yourself, eat amazing food, and decorate your room or house! And then, remember a few good things every day about why it’s nice to be single. Write down lists of reasons you’re AWESOME! Make a point of noticing cute guys and eye candy everywhere! Rent chick flicks.
None of this will help you get over the guy himself… that’s going to suck, and I’m sorry. But just know that you’ll be okay in the end, and there are good things… and better men… waiting in the future for you.
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My bf dumped me today.
My friends said i am too good for him. They said i should have break up with him. But i couldnt because everytime when i do, i take him back. I suck at this.I really gave him all of my heart and now i feel like ****.
My boyfriend dont care or talks to me anymore.He wouldnt anser my mails etc. I think this is really the end for us. This is how i got dumped. I couldnt stop feeling sad..how can i move on?
whyflywh edited this post 2 years ago. Read the previous text »
My bf dumped me today.
My friends said i am too good for him. They said i should have break up with him. But i couldnt because every time when i do, i take him back. I suck at this.I really gave him all of my heart and now i feel like ****.
My boyfriend dont care or talks to me anymore.He wouldnt anser my mails etc. I think this is really the end for us. This is how i got dumped. I couldnt stop feeling sad..how can i move on?
whyflywh edited this post 2 years ago. Read the previous text »
My bf dumped me today.
My friends said i am too good for him. They said i should have break up with him. But i couldnt because every time when i do, i take him back. I suck at this.I really gave him all of my heart and now i feel like ****.
My boyfriend dont care or talks to me anymore.He wouldnt anwser my mails etc. I think this is really the end for us. This is how i got dumped. I couldnt stop feeling sad..how can i move on?
whyflywh changed the tags on this post: they were "List of SpongeBob SquarePants episodes, boyfriend, Feeling, don't care, Stop, depression, care, Think This, dont care" 2 years ago.
The best thing to do right now is to try to keep yourself busy. Distance yourself from him. Everytime you get sad about him not being in your life think about the bad times and then find something condtructive to do. You have to make your on closure. Dont let him have the power to make you sad.
Every time when he’s hurt me, i’ll want to break up. Then, he’ll say he is sorry and all those nice things…and i take him back again. In my heart, i really want him but ive been crying so much. He can make me happy with just saying hi to me.
*** hug *** You don’t forget them, but you can move on. Anyone can make you happy by just saying hi to you if you let them.
You need to make a list of other things that make you happy. Try to put off calling him as long as possible… get the support of your family and girlfriends. It won’t happen overnight but will happen eventually!
ur friends are just saying alot of bull to make you feel better, dont take them seriously, you know in your heart that it hurts and that YOU suffered, its not about them or whos better than who, its about, what he did made you feel bad. and you feel BAD. WHat can you do to feel better? trust me I’ve been in love a few times, its usually not too late to fall in love again
you have the right to feel bad hun. i have no idea what’s going on with your boyfriend’s mind. But you sure have to take care of yourself for now. do not think much of him and what he is thinking. it is time to think about YOU.
ive been questioning about things..i think that scared him off. We have been fighting and now hes been hiding.
if those things were important to you then he should have understood. may i know how old you are?
20+
Ive been asking him if he still loves me :/
do you ask that everyday?
No. i asked that bec he dont leave me msgs, talk much to me anymore. He went off once with for few days and i asked if he was ok..he didnt say a thing…it got me so worried. I just wonder if he ever cares how i feel. He said he was sick…to sick to even let me know?? He could just run off on a vacation anytime witout telling me…and once when he did, he went off to a vacation with a 50+ yrs old female friend of his. I questioned him and to him, he didnt do anything wrong. To me, that is so wrong lol…
we fought about it! He kept on insisting he didnt do anything wrong. He said i was controlling him. He even sleepover at that friend’s house every week. He knws it hurts me when he do that but he still do it!
It hurts me so much. I realy love him soooooo much. I will give up so much things for him. But heis so messed up. He has depression, is confused with his own gender…i really dont know why i wanna love him! pls help mw.
You don’t want to love him. You don’t know what love is. If you loved him you could let him go. If he loved you he wouldn’t of done what he did. You still have time to find out what true love is. Don’t waste it on pain cause by false love.
okay, from my side of you, your boyfriend really thinks you are trying to control him. First, it is important for him to understand the reason why you ask these things, why you ask these questions. Because if he does not understand then he would think you asking all these things are means of controlling him. and men do not want to be controlled. No one does. so he hides and runs away.
Maturity would tell anyone that it is always best to tell each other what we want, what we expect from our partners. if not, we always go back to square 1, leaving each other hopeless and hurt. and love should not be that way.
Calling him now would not help. it would only make matters bad. wait for him to contact you. for him it might be too late because he feels that you are going in circles and he is so full of that. And so are you.
Or better yet, enjoy meeting friends. next time, you will do it right. You’ll meet someone who is matured, would listen to you. And by that time you are matured to listen and learn how to give and take.
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For me, i believe as time pass it will cure your pain. It may hurt now, but why not look for some other better one out there??? Dont waste your time on a man who isn’t willing to waste their time on you.
Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the person, we will know how to be grateful.
Thats all i can comment on. The rest is all up to your determination to forget about him.
Have love and respect for yourself. If this man is treating you so badly then he is best left to get on with his life and you with yours. It does hurt, of course, that’s why there are so many great songs about lost love.
There are a million of guys who would want to be your boyfriend so forget about him.don’t waste your time on a guy who would just hurt and use you.you never know,you might find another guy who would make you feel more special and loved than the guy who dumped you.good luck!
That’s all,i hope you find the perfect guy for you.
Looks to me like a million people have already responded to this, but i will to, though it’s likely no one will ever read this… (sad face). There are 6 billion people in this world. i’m no scientist, but i’d say about 3 billion girls and 3 billion boys. There has got to be more than one guy out there for you. yea, some are complete jerks, but you can’t let those ones get you down. you have to see the bright side and know that someone out there is waiting for someone like you and that’s the simplest way to put it. no one deserves to be treated poorly by their boyfriend or girlfriend, so just remember, there ARE other guys out there.
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