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i can’t break up..it is not working..it is impossible but still i don’t know what to do…

how can you break up when you gave your soul and evrything to someone? n he did too… i donno how he will take it either… distance kills love… :(

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-Jela- offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
GB | 2 years ago (1 minute after post)

heres a question u need to ask yourself…

Do you still love him??

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Trípoli, 41, GR | 2 years ago (2 minutes after post)

yes..

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val26 offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years ago (3 minutes after post)

then make try to make it work…. as hard as you can…. you are going to regret not being with him… its the hardest thing you will ever have to do in life to see someone you love go on without you

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firstlonewolf4 offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Dallas Center, IA, US | 2 years ago (4 minutes after post)

Distance should not be an excuse to break up with someone that you care about. It has worked out between people before and will again. Why is it you two want to break up right now?

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GB | 2 years ago (6 minutes after post)

Then you shouldent do it…

if you love some1 then dont give up on him… times will be hard and there will be a point where it seems like you dont like him as much and then you mught love him more than ever… u could go on a date with a complete jerk to remind yourself that he is much beter than any1 elce and still want to be with him

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Gainesville, TX, US | 2 years ago (43 minutes after post)

Me and my boyfriend live 1500 miles apart. We been together for almost 7 months so yeah i know how you feel. But it worth it. It hard but we both know and we decide to take it. so since you both still love each other, take it, make thing work if you both put the effort. Yeah I have some issue with him but at least i am askinig for help on here. But the question I am trying to figure out is why do you yall want to break up?

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Hereford, F7, GB | 2 years ago (1 hour, 4 minutes after post)

follow your heart hunnie

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Abingdon, K2, GB | 2 years ago (16 hours, 44 minutes after post)

distance can kill love but it makes the time your together all that more special. exactly how far is the distace, if you dont mind me asking??
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Irvine, CA, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (2 months after post)

i have the biggest problem i need help…
i am 28 and my girlfriend is 48.
we both love each other and the age is not a problem for me or her, but we are still worried that we can’t always be together because my parents are really strict and i love them. and the people talk **** all the time as you know and it really bothers me please if anyone can help let me know.

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Gainesville, TX, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (2 months after post)

Hi donotemailmejustpos, the situation you are in happened to my parents, they are 18 years old different, but that not the problem, people being rude to them and finally they give up becuase they got married and been together for 30 years. If your parents are strict, well they are going have to get unstrict because you are adult and you make your own decision what works and what not. You are in love with your girlfriend, not your parents or her parents. Your parents and her parents going have to accept both of you for who you are, if you and your gf dont have any problem then I dont understand why your parents are being strict and people talk crap. If they talk crap in front of you then just tell them, ” and your point is? I fell in love with (her name) not you.” Or something like that. That will shut them up eventally. Good luck.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (7 months after post)

**** LOVE

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