friends help: I know it’s time to move on from my relationship.

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I know it’s time to move on from my relationship.

While my previous break-up still hurts, I know that what I had with that person is now gone. So now I must move on.

There’s a boy at my school who I have a crush on. A small one, but the best one I have. Problem is, It’s been so long since I’ve flirted that I’m not sure how to do it.
I only see him once a day, but we’ve been friends for a while.

My question: how do I start changing things from “just friends” to “Hey bud, I’m kinda interested in you”?

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Gillian 8 #
Amsterdam, 07, NL | 2 years ago (3 minutes after post)

flirt! Or.. let him flirt with you, and show him there can be more than just friends. ;)

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Anonymous #
2 years ago (5 minutes after post)

Yeah, but how do you do that? It seems like it would be so easy to give off the vibe of “just friends!”

Gillian 8 #
Amsterdam, 07, NL | 2 years ago (9 minutes after post)

Uhm, touch him more often.. ask him out to a movie or something.. Do you think he likes you in that way too?

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 years ago (41 minutes after post)

i agree with gillian ask him if he would like to go some place with u, try to get closer and when u see him tlk 2 him more and just b urself, hug him alot, i find that works:P n mayb if ya think he likes ya two, drop hints or tell him how ya feel:)

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rumdog0 #
Rexburg, ID, US | 1 year, 12 months ago (1 week, 5 days after post)

From a guy’s perspective, if he’s interested then let him know you are too by saying something like “hey me and some friends are going to get some ice cream want to come?”. But if he isn’t than you might wind up getting no where.

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