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ok so i no it wrong to cheat on a guy…

and really i ahve no intenstion tocause i like my boy friend alot and i;m happy and every thing but hes best friend OMG we were in class and we were doeing the mile run and i was behinf him and he had his pants rolled up and you could see all the musels in his legs like perfectly and then after the run he was hella hot cuz you no he wqas running in long sleves and it waas hot out side and waht not so he took his shirt of and holly F*** the guy is buff and hot and nice one time we were on a field trip and we were all swimming but i ahde forgottin a shirt so he strips and gives me his shirt so i would be abble to go with the rest of the clas and he stod around with his swim trunks on all day and it was cold and can i point out the guys is nice sensative has a good sence of humor alwas makes me laugh and is HOT but like i said hes my best friends boy freind so that kinda sucks and i still like my boyfriend but im atracted to his friend and i cant do any thing about it

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Qzzzz offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Montpelier, MS, US | 2 years ago (4 minutes after post)

You need to concentrate on school where you can spell and write complete sentences….You did not want to hear that, but that is truth…The ONLY thing that is important now, is getting a good education…PLEASE, give it a shot…

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yo.-03l/poe offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years ago (4 minutes after post)

I feel so sorry for your Boyfriend.. Poor guy

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Nothere12 offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 46 #
Chicago, IL, US | 2 years ago (8 minutes after post)

Hahaha, I definitely agree with Qzzzz.

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theinternets offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Water Mill, NY, US | 2 years ago (13 minutes after post)

ok, do not cheat on your boyfreind. DO NOT. If you do not only will it ruin your relationship but it will also ruin theres wich would be quite selfish. The other guy is gonna be one of many temptations that ur gonna have to resist

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bubblegumlb offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
US | 2 years ago (17 minutes after post)

if you really liked your boyfriend you wouldnt feel this way.. if you are having thoughts of beeing with someone else you should leave your man and go find someone else but definitly dont go after his friend. his friend wont respect you for it, and it will only make you look bad

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Ballinteer, 07, IE | 2 years ago (17 minutes after post)

Yeah, he is a no go

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theinternets offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Water Mill, NY, US | 2 years ago (18 minutes after post)

off limits

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yo.-03l/poe offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years ago (19 minutes after post)

theinternets wrote:
ok, do not cheat on your boyfreind. DO NOT. If you do not only will it ruin your relationship but it will also ruin theres wich would be quite selfish. The other guy is gonna be one of many temptations that ur gonna have to resist

Let her do what she wants, his boyfriend deserves better..

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Nothere12 offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 46 #
Chicago, IL, US | 2 years ago (20 minutes after post)

^
You shut up.

If she breaks up with him so she could date the best friend, then that hurts that guy. If she doesn’t and flirts with him, then she hurts the boyfriend.

Deserve better, yes. Unfortunately, he is pretty much screwed up the wazoo with your suggestion.

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LesPaul87 offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
La Puente, CA, US | 2 years ago (23 minutes after post)

Qzzzz wrote:
You need to concentrate on school where you can spell and write complete sentences….You did not want to hear that, but that is truth…The ONLY thing that is important now, is getting a good education…PLEASE, give it a shot…

hahahaha Qzzz for the win!!! anyways if u want to cheat on him then u shouldnt be in a relationship at all… and plus if u break up with him his friend would not want to be with u cause u could do it to him as well…

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 years ago (24 minutes after post)

I’m just saying, her boyfriend deserves a better girl. I guess i’m angry at her.. It happen to me so yeah, SUCKS.. lol… hey sorry i’ll leave this post. i’m no one to reply here with emotional ways… HEY YOU GIRL.. DO what you wish just try not to hurt your boyfriend that much..

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glicher2 offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 21 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years ago (28 minutes after post)

okay hes buff and all but go for the personality
its not the outside that counts but the inside

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theinternets offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Water Mill, NY, US | 2 years ago (28 minutes after post)

/sigh if only most ppl thought likr that glicher

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glicher2 offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 21 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years ago (31 minutes after post)

hey thanks

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theinternets offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Water Mill, NY, US | 2 years ago (32 minutes after post)

heh sry. But I’ve have some experience related to that topic

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Qzzzz offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Montpelier, MS, US | 2 years ago (43 minutes after post)

Think this was NOT a legitimate post..or the poster would have responded…Get so tired of these people who try too “yank our chain”…sorry, don’t get negative very often, but this happens so much…

Goodnite…

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xxxburningflowerxxx offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years ago (2 hours, 13 minutes after post)

ok for starter Qzzzzz i’de hvae you now that i do perfectly well in school and in spelling and eglish even if you can’t tell cause my tpying sucks if it bothers you then you have my permission to changed it idiot it what ever.

and to all the other people really i do like my boyfreind alot but his friend and i no he dosint seriously mean it flirts with me all the time as a jokeso i guess that makes no difference forget i said it ok well basicly i didint really ask you guys for help i just said what i was thinking so any way i talked to the buff guy his names cameron by the way any way he asked this one girl out and then he went on to say that his best friend my boyfriend is totally in to me and really likes me and what not so that makes me happy and now that i herd that its makeing me apresheat him more cuz i mean he is totally awesome so forget what i said about cam he has a girl friend and i’m happy with my boyfriend.!!!!

to glicther2

the guy does have a really nice personality and he cool i soend alot of time with him but only when my boyfriends there so he does have a nice personality and hid girlfriend is lucky.

to mxc-alan

um i’m sorry that what i sa8d anoys you but if it makes you feel any better i don’t feel that why any more and me and my boyfreind are goeing to hang out tomarow{ hes gonna help me with homework} and then on friday were goeing to the mall so basicly were both happy now

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webjeff200 offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Chicago, IL, US | 2 years ago (6 hours, 20 minutes after post)

bellatrix130 please proofread text.

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Qzzzz offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Montpelier, MS, US | 2 years ago (10 hours, 59 minutes after post)

Dear Bellatrix130,

I apologize for getting on you about your English and spelling. But, having been a former teacher, people that take the time to correct you and try to mold you into a better person, are doing that out of love. Not to be mean. Look, in this World you are judged by your peers etc. by the work you produce. When you misspell words, use poor grammer, don’t take pride in your workmanship, this will follow you into the job market and you will never make the kind of money to live a fruitful and good life my friend.

TRUST ME my friend, don’t spend near as much time thinking about the boys, spend MORE TIME getting that education. It will pay off….

Take care,

Qzzzz

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 years ago (12 hours, 18 minutes after post)

I cant think of anything to say to that.

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Qzzzz offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Montpelier, MS, US | 2 years ago (12 hours, 24 minutes after post)

Bellatrix, please read my post, I really like talking with the young people on this site..you can click on it above…Proud to add you to my friend’s list. Have a good day!

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Dan TL offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
La Mirada, CA, US | 2 years ago (15 hours, 9 minutes after post)

If you go after his friend, like many said that maybe the worst path; You loose your BF, his respect, his friend may loose respect for you, you break up their friendship ect… just a large mess, very large.

You stay with your boyfriend and pass off the temptations of his friend then that shows how strong your will is and how much you care for him

You leave your boyfriend, dont go for that guy, you want somthing hot you can pick a ? you can find that anywere, just dont ruin their friendship.

You can take some time off from reationships, and focus on somthing that you wanted to do, you dont want to get “relationship dependant” i know some people who are, they have to have a BF/GF all the time or else they panic.

Well I think thoughs are your options, I think It will be a matter of how much you have feelings for your BF. Good luck

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 years ago (15 hours, 23 minutes after post)

Ha… Whatever. I still think her boyfriend deserves a better chick..

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