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My boyfriend & I have been together 3 years; we are in our late 20’s.
We both have our own condos and for the past year we have been talking about him renting his condo out & moving in with me. He always has an excuse as to why he hasn’t rented his condo yet (he needs to fix things, he needs insurance, etc.) He stays at my house almost every night and the reason is because I have 2 small kids from my first marriage and it’s more convenient for me. He doesn’t financially help me, which never really bothered me since we both have our own mortgages. Here’s my problem, he recently rented out one of his bedrooms to a female coworker. He says the reason is because he has some debt that he needs to pay off and since he has not rented his whole condo yet he’ll help her out and collect $500. He says he can’t give me half of that money because he really needs it. I told him it’s not fair he collects money for his condo, stays with me every night and doesn’t give me any money. So I packed up all his stuff and told him to stay home. I feel like he only cares about his finances & not mine, I’m a single mother living pay check to pay check. I have been trying not to let the situation bother me, but every time I see him I feel so hurt and a little jealous. Am I over reacting? What should I do? He is a good guy and I do feel he loves me and my kids very much.
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