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scoobiedo1208
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Maryville, TN, US

Lonley.

I am lonley right now and there is no one here. I don’t have any real friends, seriously like there is my boyfriend and his best friend. That is all I have. My boyfriend is having a boys night so I can’t talk to him. I just feel like no one cares anymore I am trying so hard to do what I can, but in the end I can’t. I just want someone to be here for me when I get upset for no reason like I am now. I will be turing 20 in like a week and I want so much out of my life but yet I am getting no where. I know I am still young and my life is only begining, but yet I still have this void. Sorry for the rant, I do feel better now.

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Kasai offline Unverified User #
NY, US | 1 year ago (6 minutes after post)

Do you know why people don’t like you? Maybe you could try to start a relationship with your best friend’s friends. or your boyfriend’s friends. I really wouldn’t know. I’m not even in high school.

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Weasehl offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Saint Louis, MO, US | 1 year ago (11 minutes after post)

I know how you feel, I’m married now, and about the same age as you, I’ll be 20 in june the only person I’m ever around other than my husband is his best friend and that’s not really -my- friend.
Sometimes you just feel really lonely being the only girl and noone’s around to help you deal with your random moods, or the fact that you’re hurting or anything like that, and it gets really confusing.
I feel completely alone in almost everything I do.
I’ll be your friend.
If that’s okay with you.

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n1lko offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Coventry, RI, US | 1 year ago (12 minutes after post)

i dont think its that people dont like you. i get the impression that either you r alittle shy or your boyfriend is controlling your life. either way remeber that life doesnt end for a long time. do your best to be frienly and meet new people, because i know there are people who would like to meet you.

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scoobiedo1208 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Maryville, TN, US | 1 year ago (18 minutes after post)

Wow weasehl you just said everything i am feeling, it actually made me cry (in a good way someone actually gets me) It is sad, I sometimes wish that me and my honey were already married, we don’t have plan to or anything I just really wish we were.

n1lko, my boyfriend is like the least controlling person I have ever dated. He lets me do what ever and trusts me to do the right things. I have people that say we are friends but when it comes down to do things friends actually do, they never want to.

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Weasehl offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Saint Louis, MO, US | 1 year ago (22 minutes after post)

scoobiedo1208 wrote:
Wow weasehl you just said everything i am feeling, it actually made me cry (in a good way someone actually gets me) It is sad, I sometimes wish that me and my honey were already married, we don’t have plan to or anything I just really wish we were.

n1lko, my boyfriend is like the least controlling person I have ever dated. He lets me do what ever and trusts me to do the right things. I have people that say we are friends but when it comes down to do things friends actually do, they never want to.

MY husband and I didn’t have much of a plan either ^^ I was in a bad situation and needed to get out of my mom’s house, so he came and got me, we’ve lived with his dad ever since. It get’s kind of hectic XD
I’m so happy it helped, I feel that way almost all the time!
Well, if you ever need anyone to listen to you, even if it’s just a “I have no clue why, but everything pisses me off right now”
You’ve got me ^^

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