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Shannon127
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Phoenix, AZ, US

just a relationship rant.

Sooooo ive had feelings for my best friend for awhile now and i decided not to tell her about it because i was pretty sure it would kill our friendship. I should also mention however that we were friends with benefits for awhile although we never actually discussed it. It kinda just happened one time…and then another time…and a few more times. Anyway she told me last night that she got herself a girlfriend. Now to be honest everytime ive read in books or seen on tv someone say they’re going to be sick from news like that, i thought they were faking it. I can tell you thats not true. I almost threw up and i havent been feeling well theis entire day. She came to visit me at work this morning and was all excited and happy, which she hasnt been for a few months. I cant decide if i should be mad at her, mad at myself or if i should just be happy for her. I mean i am happy that shes happy but its still killing me inside.

rant over

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theendofsusa offline Unverified User #
Flagstaff, AZ, US | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

sorry but you had your chance with this girl and you kinda just let it slip by.you even said yourself your not going to admit your feelings for her,so theres nothing you can do.i offer my condolences but i think u should move on :(. good luck!

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Prestidigitator offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Claresholm, AB, CA | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 1 minute after post)

well….**** happens. sometimes you just have to admit it to people (i have this problem too) u can still be friends i guess

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faeryrac offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 56 minutes after post)

You should have been honest with your friend earlier, never use the excuse of not wanting to ruin a friendship because you could have had more. But they say it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. Tell her or clam up and be happy for her.

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Muzikfrk88 offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Sacramento, CA, US | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (3 hours, 24 minutes after post)

You should tell her how you feel. Don’t miss your chance… you’ll regret it

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