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Frankfort, KY, US

I love this girl and she got a boyfriend and she said we gunna share him

but I dont want him I want her wat I do I need help =(

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Anonymous #
2 years ago (6 minutes after post)

i have the exact same problem.:( It sucks.

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~cottoncandy~ offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Frankfort, KY, US | 2 years ago (7 minutes after post)

oooo really …. it hurts soooo bad that i love her but she wants him=’(

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Anonymous #
2 years ago (9 minutes after post)

wow this is wierd. That is my exact problem i wont her so much but all shes interested in his him and in this case hes not even good for her as he treats her like right **** :(

x

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~cottoncandy~ offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Frankfort, KY, US | 2 years ago (11 minutes after post)

figures all boys are like that I mean I like boys 2 but still I think girls understand me more

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rooseno offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Dublin, 07, IE | 2 years ago (11 minutes after post)

Ok she obviously isnt taking you very seriously. Have you told her how you feel. And she has the cheek to she use can share him. Ok she is obviously looking at this as a good way to impress her man. Im sorry hun but I think you should move on and move on from them both, because your feeling have not been taking into consideration at all here.

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Anonymous #
2 years ago (12 minutes after post)

It hurts like hell, but i have to sort of learn to live with it now.

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rooseno offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Dublin, 07, IE | 2 years ago (14 minutes after post)

Hey you are way too good for that. It’ll be hard but dont put up with that. There is no respect there for you. Shes out for number 1 im sorry to be so blunt but I dont like seeing people being made a mug of.

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~cottoncandy~ offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Frankfort, KY, US | 2 years ago (14 minutes after post)

yea I know but still it hurts

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rooseno offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Dublin, 07, IE | 2 years ago (16 minutes after post)

You’ll ge through it, just be strong. Stay away, keep your distance. You’ll never get over it if the reminder is always there!

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~cottoncandy~ offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Frankfort, KY, US | 2 years ago (16 minutes after post)

aawww thanks I’ll try ur a sweet person thanks again

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Times' gone mad offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
Silver Spring, MD, US | 2 years ago (38 minutes after post)

What she means is that she was gonna share herself—-the boy is just a complication to the relationship…

If you like/love her and don’t want to be in a polygamous relationship, you should tell her and be clear about your feelings—it’s not worth the heart ache.

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spiritedsoul offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Sandgate, G5, GB | 2 years ago (55 minutes after post)

share a boyfriend? i wudn;t share a bf.

~cottoncandy~ wrote:
figures all boys are like that I mean I like boys 2 but still I think girls understand me more

i can partially relate to you there lol

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AKITHMA offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years ago (20 hours, 30 minutes after post)

dont get involved if he ends up liking you more she may regret it and end up despising you for it.

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~cottoncandy~ offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Frankfort, KY, US | 2 years ago (21 hours, 50 minutes after post)

ahhhhhhhhhhh! I dont know wat 2 do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1111

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damo_wentwort offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (2 weeks, 3 days after post)

ave got same problem. been seeing this girl who has a boyfriend for almost a year. yea i no its wrong but wen you love sum 1 u cnt stay away shes made me cry so much and i forgive her no am weak. 1 problem i cnt get ova it because she lives around the corner and her boyfriends car is always there at night drives me crazy thinking what they are doing wen she use 2 claim 2 me she loves me

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Anonymous #
1 year, 9 months ago (2 months, 3 weeks after post)

someone told me in a topic i made, same quote “Just tell her exactly how you feel, make her choose, or else you will miss out.”

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