guy help: I have a question I have been dating this guy for a while and - Help.com

Let him go. he is preoccupied with something or someone else and is just leading you on. if you turn the tables on him you may get a favorable result out of him. i don’t know how you really feel about this guy but you have to be willing to take a chance to gain what you want. if you do this and he bolts then it was not meant to be and you should move on to better prospects. to be in a loving relationship it has to be the same on both sides and you will know when the right person is looking you in the eye. lies, deception, exclusion and alienation of any sort from anyone is a sure sign of a lack of love for you. why would you want someone who may not want you.

I love him Joe and I have been through so much with this man and I have stood by him through it all never waivering in my love for him, and he just always makes me feel like I am unworthy, it hurts so bad.

Do you say you would like to go with him. If you don’t and just assume that you are he might be getting the wrong message, he may be thinking you don’t wanna go and not bring the subject up again.

he knew I wanted to go. He is just different now. Do you think I should say something to him? I mean I really love him and I just do not understand this.

say something about it then make your decision.

Anonymous. Sorry to hear you are having problems with your love. Communication is the most important part of a relationship. If you have questins then you should ask him why he invites you to do things with his parents and acts as if he forgets, something is wrong.
I agree with Joe, it will be hard to do but it is in your best interest to talk to him or walk away from him.
good luck

He is just totally different now even when I talk to him on the phone he is so short almost like he is calling out of obligation not because he wants to talk to me I am overwhelmingly hurt and I am affraid if I say something he will walk away. I feel like now that he has quit drinking and is trying to do right with his life he has no use for me even though I stood by him through everything!