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So I’m asking this guy I really like to go to the movies with a group of my friends.

I want to ask him so that it’s not awkward, but I still want him to know that it’s more than just going out with friends…

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joseph_vonl offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Ciudad Juárez, 15, MX | 2 years ago (26 minutes after post)

just when you’re out of the movies why dont you try and find a way to talk to him but away from your friends, see what happens, you know.

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Saggezza offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Vancouver, BC, CA | 2 years ago (38 minutes after post)

I think one of the best ways to do this is to… Well, normally, you would probably say something like…

“Hey, you wanna go to the movies with my friends and I?”…

Instead, say something like…

“Hey, my friends and I are going to the movies… I *want* you to come with… It’ll be fun”. Say it with a smile, and eye contact crucial :-)

There’s a huge difference between the two. If he seems interested, maybe suggest that the two of you can get there early and grab an ice cream (or whatever). Have fun!!! :-)

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val26 offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years ago (1 hour, 21 minutes after post)

if he comes along and you werent specific enough about really wanted him to come as more than just friends… dont be upset if he doesnt get it… guys sometimes dont understand things unless its clear and infront of them…

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1 year, 12 months ago (5 days, 1 hour after post)

so we went to the movies and when I asked him to come with us I’m pretty sure he realized that I was asking him a little more specially. Nothing “exciting” happened, but he started to stutter more when he was trying to talk to me, and kept watching for my reaction when he said something funny. So thanks for the advice uz I think this might be going somewhere!

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