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So, I ended a relationship almost a month ago within the next week and half.
It honestly wasn’t really me, it was him. But I don’t need to explain all this now, because this other issue is more important, lol, if that’s okay.
Anyways. So ever since I began attending the college I go to I have had classes with this guy named *John. He is really nice, really sweet, really funny, and just the right amount of religious. I just want a guy who is a Christian, and he is very devout. I am Christian but I don’t attend church regularly, but am hoping to find somebody nice like him and that would def. motivate me to go to church. This isn’t the reason I would like to go out with him. I just think they are nice traits. He and I are the same age as well, 20. I have known him for a year and half and I think we’d get along really well.
Many people in our education classes are always saying how perfect of a couple we’d be…well they tell me that. I don’t think he sees it though. We haven’t discussed it at all b/c I’m too scared so I just act kinda like a friend.
Problem is, I’ve developed feelings for him. I just wonder if I’m good enough. I’m 20, weighing 220 pounds, 5 foot 6 and a half, tanned, c-cup, and I’m always neat and clean. He is 6 foot 2, probably weighes 150 pounds, neat and clean. Pretty brown hair and blue eyes, very light skinned.
I know it’s not all about looks, at least it’s not to me, but I’m afraid that most men are that way.
He doesn’t seem to be, but it’s not like I can read his mind. Hell I’d date a 400 pound man if I loved him, or a 99 pound man if I loved him, doesn’t matter.
Yes, I’m trying to lose weight.
Anyways, he’s sweet, and people are always telling me how sweet I am. How do I ask him out? He’s really into church…and I don’t wanna offend him.
I asked him if I could try coming to his church soon, he said he’d love for me to come. I can’t really…consider that a date though, you know? I mean it’s church!
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