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Another Update!

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Hi all. I know I have made many posts about my family and you have all been there for me. I just wanted to give you all an update. I think the last I told you, my gram was very sick and I was home visiting her. My gram passed away in August. It was a very hard time for me. It is still hard for me but I take it one day at all time. My mom finally sold my gram’s house. That was a big thing too. My mom paid to have all my stuff shipped to me through UPS. Now I have like 20 boxes sitting here that I need to go through. LOL. My mom is looking to buy a house here in WV so my family and I can be close to each other again. I got a puppy but am looking to get rid of her. I don’t have the patience to take care of her and she is destroying my apartment. My landlord has given me until the 15th of this month to move. I have met a guy at work who wants to get to know me better but I am not sure that is such a good idea with how depressed and stuff I have been lately. Besides, I am in love with a married man. Not my ex that I wrote about once before. This is someone I have been seeing from work and I know I shouldn’t be doing it. I tell myself over and over that it is wrong but it always seems we wind up hanging out together. Anyway, just thought I would update you all cause I know I didn’t exactly leave the site in good spirits. (Not that I have them now LOL)

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Mï†z¥-superMODel offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 151 #
Tullahoma, TN, US | 10 months, 1 week ago (1 day after post)

OH MY GOODNESS!!! I’m SO glad to hear from you!!!!!!!! I didn’t know whatever happened to you!!! Thank GOD you’re ok!!!

I’m sorry to hear about your Grandmother’s passing, but it’s good you’re taking it one day at a time, that’s really the only way right? It will be nice to be close to your mom huh? I understand about the puppy, I have 2 I need to get rid of too lol. I’m glad you realize the guy you love isn’t the right one, and with time you’ll find someone better, who isn’t married :D

*giant hugs for you girl*

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fubartigger1979 offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Baltimore, MD, US | 10 months, 1 week ago (1 day, 9 hours after post)

Hi,
Yes, I am ok. Even though sometimes it seems like I am not. There have been some really dark days for me but I am happy to say that I am still among the living and that I have NOT tried to hurt myself in anyway. No cutting, no pills, no nothing. Which for me is a very good thing!!! My gram had been sick for a long time. She got a lot worse after my poppy passed away. I went to NY for a week about a month before she passed and it was very hard to see her the way she was. I cried everytime I left her side.
Being close to my mom will be good but we are still not on the best of terms. Things have been a little better between us but I don’t ever think we will be as close as we should be.
My little sister is having a baby and asked me to be the godmother. I went to NY last month for a baby shower. I didn’t realize all the stuff I had bought. I had a full duffle bag plus half my suitcase full of stuff for the baby!! LOL. She also got a ton of stuff from everyone else. She is actually due Christmas day! I can’t wait.
I went and bought a crate for the puppy. Everyone told me this will help to train her. Tomorrow will be the test. That is when I go back to work and have to put her in it all day. I hope she doesn’t hate me for it.
The married guy happens to be a very good friend as well as someone I am in love with. We talk at work and take our breaks together. He usually cheers me up when I am having a bad day at work. He knows how I feel about him and he is cool with it. I know that he has a family and he loves them. I actually like when he talks about his boys. He gets so excited!! He is trying to find me a guy that I can date but he says that he has to make sure he is a good guy. He says I deserve only someone that will treat me like the world. So he won’t let me settle for just anyone.
Anyway, I will try to be on the site more now. It is still a little crazy for me cause I have been working alot. They opened the casino 24 hours and they don’t have enough staff for it. So I have been working alot of overtime. Won’t hear me complain though. Make alot of money that way LOL
Thank you for answering my post and for caring about me. :)

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