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I dont think he is a best friend at all. he would have came to you before he started dating her letting you know he was interested or that she came to him (whatever the case may be. He is suppose to be your best friends which means “bros over hoes” (for girls it would be “hoes over bro” LOL). If she was really crazy about you she would have stayed away from your best friend. Its a two way street so dumo them both out of your lives. JMO.

soryy for the typo its “dump” not “dumo”

i think that if it is an issue with you then you need to let your best friend know. my younger brother and his best friend were in a similar situation. when his best friend relationship ended she started looking towards my brother. they were friends way before she ever met my brothers best friend. the thing is that since his friend was dating someone else he didnt think much of it. they kissed; he felt guilty told his friend and his friend got upset the girl got upset that he told and non of them talked for a while. he talks to them now but only after apologizing and i dont think his best friend trust him the same. the girl and he were friends since elementary so eventually she came around and apologized to him for putting him in that situation. things changed and that is the bottom line. i think you need to have a good heart to heart with your friend and take it from there. as for the girl, i dont think she is worth either one of your time. JMO

glad to help. good luck