Sounds like you’re craving drama. You mispelled beauty, but I won’t judge you by that. I’m not sure exactly what you mean becaus believe it or not, the reverse is kind of true. I, as a guy, find it hard to understand what women are thinking, so just try to find someone that balances you out and that both of you can understand eachother.
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ha my bad lookes like BEAUTY not brains. and thanks Ken hopefully someday soon.
it def. does thanks alot. and i know what you mean too… i think people spend too much of thier lives chasing what you cant have. (the perfect jock or the hottest girl in school). It’s hard sometimes for me to turn away from that sometimes… the thing is i usually get what i want so it’s stupid cause i just can’t find what im looking for.i guess i should relax and let him find ME. im not a heartbreaker i promise… it’s just guys fall so fast i dont have time to figure out if it’s whats best fr ME.
cheers to that. life is ***** but hey im learning to enjoy the ride. sure ive been through some rough stuff along the way… but whatever doesnt kill you makes you stronger, right?(thanks Kanye) :) and thank you too man the advice means alot to me. whatever happens, it’s just gonna happen.
(and if there’s one thing i learned it’s that you can’t stop it)
i dont know what to tell you i am a smart redneck and a fat guy so i sort of have the same problem
lmao follow the head not he heart it always knows best:)
Sounds like you’re looking for all the right things in the wrong guys. If you want a guy who respects you for who you are, look for a guy who respects you not a guy who ‘could’ respect you or says he respects you. Do you have any close guy friends?
Ok speaking for the male point of view, man like what they see first in women and thats the outside. These are one’s we ask out, for they phone number, etc. I know that right or fair.
Now the women that we mostly like take home to see mother (I NOT THINK MEN DO THESE ANYMORE) is someone with some smarts like yourself. Also men with a good income have to deal with women the same way, do they want me for me or my money?
One last thing, if you looking the right person in bars will not find them there. These guys really go afther ones that look good. Church maybe one of places to start looking.
This should read (i don’t think men do this anymore)
thanks for the advice guys im just gonna see what happens and take it easy. and yes Naska i have millions of guy friends… which is half the problem. lmao thanks keeep posting love to hear all of your advice
and actually webjeff200 my ex brought me to see his mom… she cooked some nasty chicken that looked like raw meat. ;0 he he but your absolutley right.
i feel where u coming from girl… sameprobs as me :-(
the chicken or the actual post?
Be yourself… let him come to you. Usually the guys that will go out of their way for you without you realizing it are the best ones out there. The best ones are worth waiting for, and the rest are worse than burning dung. Just don’t overlook people, and try to look for someone that doesn’t care what other people think about him, and is himself.
i my self am a sports guy but i also enjoy writing and giving advice yes.. there is some guys that have more then meets the eye hopefully you will find a guy that will treat you perfectly
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dude its not the jocky football playerss that i hav a problem with its the way half of them are. but what bothers me is that idk the people that are missing what im looking for always are physically attractive ones i end up with… should i look at the unatractive guys? idk it just wouldnt work:(
-_-; Don’t look for looks, good looking or bad. Look at their actions and reasons for actions.
thanks thats a good way to put it.
thats what i always tell people too but its so hard to follow ur own advice!!!! lmao im gonna stop bein a sobby B**** and let it happen on its own. always love input though!
how about this :P get to know the guys :P know them for who they are and take acount on how the treat you
if i got a tatoo i’d probably ink that to my arm :)
lol i dont know if i should be insaulted or feel good for helping :P
Insulted? lmao fine no tatoo’s.
P.S (i added you all to my friends list)
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this one is for the guys…. i was unfortunatley was blessed with brains and buety. and i know thats great but the brains always fight the buety part of me. Yah im blonde and so yah therefore every guy ive ever met wants to label me as a piece of ***. what frustrates me EVEN more is that im extreamly intelligent too and i dont think there are many guys out there like what i want. sure my hormones want the jocky football player, but my heart wants someone who’s artsy and philisophical. is there more to guys than they appear to wanna show me? cause they look like cheating lying unfaithful things i wont mention at the moment. :( UGH i might as well give up. but while im at it let me ask you something… because i love video games and football and surfing im always surrounded by guy friends. On the other hand they always take it too far. Im a barbie on the outside but dam im a hell of a lot like GI Joe on the inside. why cant guys except that? they want either or and thats the end of it. im not chnging for anybody, ever, but could someone, PLEASE help me out?
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Maybe you are too humble…
Well, I can’t see the problem. If the smart guys are smart enough, they’ll see something behind the surface. And I don’t know any smart guy who wouldn’t want a smart AND beautiful girl.
But do YOU see behind the surface? There are a lot of goodlooking guys around, so conscious about their looks so they forget to be smart. They believe that they can get any girl they want. And they may be partly right, at least they get the barbies. And I think that this confidence may make them dumb. I can understand that it sucks.
But it is easy to make that into that all goodlooking guys are dumb, which is as wrong as that all goodlooking girls are dumb. Some of them are humble and intelligent, looking for other qualities than only looks when they meet girls. Then you have the guys “in the middle”, maybe using their looks to have a nice time before getting serious and steady up things.
That goes for both sexes. Some of the “barbies” are very intelligent. They may even behave like barbies, by reasons of their own. Perhaps just to have a good time with a goodlooking toyboy, or maybe by other reasons. Some exploit their beauty to get financial rewards. There are well known examples among the stars. E.g. Madonna, who started off as a gifted singer with fairly average looks. But she exploited it, making many believe that she was just a dumb blondie who could sing. She managed to look really sexy to most men, and she knew exactly what to do in each moment. This was not just clever managers, I think she is extremely intelligent. I may not have agreed with all her choices if I was a girl, but she made them consciously, knowing their impact. Or Evita Peron for that matter, the woman she portraited in the muscal. She was also very intelligent, but made other choices.
But beware! Getting things too easily may make people less humble, and being to cocky makes others consider it as being dumb. It is also not far from becoming dumb.
I sent a reply Molotok but i don’t think it went through. To sum it up, thank you with all my heart you’ve given me some of the best advice yet. I obviously made some mistakes though-
starting with some amazing people right here.
All my love and happy holidays!
P.s (I added you to my friends list.)
Thanks Again.
right… so whats the problem? cuz it seems like you’ve got it pretty much figured out… and likely don’t need any more advice other than find new friends, or more girl friends, and less jocky ones… cuz they don’t seem to fufill your personal needs… or they do… but only with warped expectations…
True. I won’t argue… but i’d rather not close the post. You can never recieve too much advice and it’s interesting to see where different people are comming from…
everyone goes with what other people are doing. n its also most peoples personal preference. they all want the person that is tha hottest/cutest, but they also want a person who is the nicest, sweetest, most romantic, etc.. people dont want the “ugly” person. but it depends on how u describe beauty. some like pysical beauty, but others like inner beauty.
hi thats crazy it will be so fascinating to meet you. i love alot of challenges my dear
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