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dude. if you cant take the pain, you aint serious about suicide. go see someone. get some help.
Hrm… it’s not a fast suicide method, but you could try to become a honest politician.
Those are eaten alive, by collegues, by lobbyists and by financial bigshots.
But why do such a stupid thing as just quitting?
Also I don’t fear death, but I have no intention of ending things by myself. At least not now.
I think most people have had such thoughts, but very few go from thought to action.
And after a while, things are OK again.
Then there is also no painless way. If not your pain, then others.
No matter who you are, there are people liking you.
Then if things suck, it’s interesting to see how much more they can suck, or if things even change for the better.
At least that curiousity have kept me going.
Dont kill yourself man. Suicide is a Cowards way out.
Though iMO in movies Ive always been a huge fan of the Blaze of Glory endings.
also known as suicide by cop.
How about you get motivated, fight and put all your energy into trying to get where you should be.
don’t listen to those guys. you don’t have to contemplate suicide.
suicide is not the way out.
see professional help or church that can help you. it’s worth it.
again, don’t quit.
Stay in survival mode. You’ve only the one life, don’t waste it, seek professional help instead.
Some practical advice if you are serious: Stop breathing, it doesn’t hurt and is not painful! If you can’t do that you know there is no easy way out.. Your body wants to live but your brains tells you the wrong things! That is why desperate people do drastic things to commit suicide. Think, the problems in life isn’t worth taking your own life.
Hey man, I realized that you live in Glen Rose? Not far from where I live…CLeburne. But think about the joys in your life over what disappointments that have emerged infront of you. I have been in a similar position before and i surpassed it by going a different route to help and benefit myself, along with all the others that know that love me. You may take your life, but what will you really be accomplishing? What isgoing to happen when your friends need you, and you aren’t there? How is your family going to feel when they see you being buried knowing that this should be done alot longer from now? Think about all the successes that you are going to miss out on…your children graduating, them getting married, taking roadtrips and making memories with friends and family. I wnat u to think about EVERY POSSIBLE EVENT THAT CAN TAKE PLACE BEFORE YOU DO THIS STUPID ACTION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!because it’s not only your life you’re changing but the others that have been influenced BECAUSE OF YOU! im here for you, im just around the corner as well.
Chelsea Miranda, I dont live in Glen Rose. Sound advice though, but Ive already thaught about it all.
webjeff200, to much to go into.
Everyone else who posted, thanks for your time and worry but all I really wanted was what I mentioned in my first post.
i know how you feel i want to die too i google fast suicde methods and this came up you people dont know how bad somethings can get when some people hit rock bottom there isnt anything left to do
I am going to do a suicide attempt tonight because i’ve discovered myself as a coward who doesn’t deserve anything in the world..Iseriously couldnt live with loads of pain in my heart.its very difficult for me to run my life as an 18 year old girl.i feel completely useless .Life sucks.Im totally helpless now and i dont need any kind of help from anybody.
We cannot come and help you, because we don’t know where you are, we don’t know who you are and we don’t know of your pains and problems.
You came to this place to get some kind of contact, not only to get an audience. So that contact can’t be established unless you reveal some info, too.
Somewhere deep inside you know that you are on the wrong track, and you also see that a such solution would be wrong. Otherwise you would not tell strangers about it, but you would just do it.
Apparantly you are not the right one to judge what you deserve. You also need a lot of help, contrary to what you claim.
We now know that you are 18, and a girl.
Then let us start with the pains and ease them, one by one!
Start telling what burdens you!
If you want to kill yourself then just do it. It really isn’t that hard to kill yourself, **** half the **** in your house can probably do the job. IF you’re asking you don’t want to die. So listen to the people who will answer your question by trying to convince you otherwise.
I’m also looking for a way out, stop breathing and taking plls is the best thing I’ve heard so far. If a person wants to die, who are you to tell them they are cowards and to love life anyway. There are reasons people want to commit suicide, like me, what do I have to live for, I have no one to love, and no one loves me, not even God, if he did, I wouldn’t b feeling like this. So everyone out there who has a good answer to committing suicide, just put it out there, its not like you know, you just gave some advice. Tell me a way?
I am in the same boat, nobody on this earth loves me but I don’t think the One who has put me here thinks the same or otherwise He would have taken me away long ago. He, God, thus must love me!
Afterall, I don’t even love myself.
And there is nothing I have to live for! The only one who loved me was my mother and she passed away. No one loves me!
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-Remember everyone, every person how ever bad things seem has a place….If your feeling suicidal address your feelings with people who feel the same, as there youll find genuine empathy, and a way of working through it and finding the solution…remember everyone has a place, you are not alone!
Suicide is a choice like everything else.
Yes, it is sad people will be sad but if the only reason one has to live is to PLEASE other people, then that is not much of a life. It can be a true philosophical decision, totally separate from depression. We do not have to live to old age if we do not want.
Please don’t romanitize drowning. My sister died a horrible death (accidental) by drowning and that it why I want to die. It is two years now and I still cry every day. I will not do it by drowning. Hundreds of sleeping pills and sedatives mixed with alcohol will be my way on her birthday.
Irene, do you think that she would want that?
You don’t want to live just to please other people, then do it to please your sister! Beause if she could see you, I bet she would want you to find a pleasant life here.
And what about parents, relatives and friends?
It will make certain that their lives will be really spoiled!
The time that your sister had in life, was that bad or good?
Life is full of choices! When you make the wrong choice you have to accept the consequences. How would you like the people, dearest to your heart, which molotok have mentioned, to feel?
Unfortunately, most people who commit suicide do it because they are selfish. They concentrate only on their own problems and don’t think how many problems they leave behind.
Indirectly,Irene, your feelings are an perfect example, after the death of your sister, how your family would feel. Think…. afterall we are only here on earth to SERVE other people and not to “please” them.
life is not fair , it sucks , why keep doing something that suck . and it is a big lie that life is full of choices . anyway of doing it , is better than living .
Jumping of a heigh building will be my way , because for 5 second I will truly be free .
How is it a lie, that life is full of choices? You would be free for approx 5 seconds, but where would you be after that?! Listen there is a hope, His name is Jesus! I have been suicidal many times in my life but there has been something that has stopped me! I will be praying for you… I pray that you will know His presence and know that He is in control… No matter what has happened in you life , it can be sorted and the only way is up now, right?
I have no idea man, I am in pain lots of the time, and I too need out of here
Many people often say finding religion is the way to avoid suicide. For many, it does work, and it works very well. However, not everyone who wants to die can easily accept god. Many often feel that if there is a god, they’ve been cheated. “Why would god make me suffer so much? If he’s a loving god, how come I’m living a life of hell?” If this is the case, listening to a bunch of religious advice may not be the best thing to hear. Now, I know those who believe in god have their explinations for this (i.e. the age-old “life of trials” arguement) but the fact in the matter always boils down to a simple choice we all must make at some point in our lives:
Do I overcome this, or do I walk away.
To give up, or to devote your time towards bettering yourself is really all there is too it. If one day you wake up and realize you’re weak, become stronger. If you wake up and realize you’re a coward, work to dominate those fears. If your heart feels broken, work to mend it instead of throwing it away.
The truth is, we all lose loved ones in our lives, go through hardships, and even have times where we feel completely helpless. In a way, we owe it to those times to really be able to appreciate the good times. I’m sure we’ve all heard the cliche phrase “without pain we cannot know happiness.”
Being weak, being helpless, and living in a world of pain is a choice, not a sentence. Just as the mind can make us believe it’s always “one bad thing after another”, it can also empower us to break free from whatever misery we face. The only difficult step is to want it. Only when you find the courage to stand will you find the strength to walk.
Those that say to call a hotline, tell a friend, or go to church, while all are good methods, they’re not just the only ways to do it. If you can overcome the desire to end your life, with whatever method and for whatever reason, you’re already stronger than you realize.
I just feel like dying. Everyone thinks me useless. I have lost everything. I have done this before but it didnt work. Hopefully this time it works. Atleast once im gone, a lot of people i know will be happier. My life is such that i can never erase anything that happened to me since childhood and now i cant change anything. those memories are always haunting me. I wish i can have the strength to do it properly this time. good bye everyone!
This will sound harsh. The reason this will sound harsh is because it’s the honest truth. The truth hurts, so brace yourselves.
People that commit suicide are idiots.
Stop and think about it. They’re absolute idiots.
The arguments they come up with are always the same, “oh the people I know would be happier, I’m always plagued by memories, no one loves me anyway, I have nothing left to live for…”
Seriously. Have you people not learned enough about the human mind yet to realize this is not how the world works? Do you not realize that even if you’re some god-ugly, daft, ignorant bastard there’s still at least someone out there who looks up to you and sees you for the neat kind of person you actually can be? Even if you can’t pull out a name, there will be others as long as you’re willing to give them the time of day.
Lets look at the reasons, shall we?
Problem: No one loves/likes me. Solution: Start enjoying the things in life that make you happy. Find a hobby. Be the person YOU want to be. Similar interests are a good common ground for making friends. No one likes a miserable person, so you’re only digging your own hole. Smile a little.
Problem: Horrible things have happened in the past/present. Solution: And? You’re going to let that ruin the rest of your life? Unless you’re over 60 those years of utter hell only make up a fraction of your life. Look at yourself in the mirror and ask yourself why you’re throwing it all away over a small slice of life. Find a support group if the things are really bad. Get help from friends/family. If you dont have friends/family, see problem 1.
Problem: I hate myself. Solution: Fix the things you hate about yourself. Sounds preachy? Think about it for a minute. Why do you hate yourself? Break it down into smaller parts. You’re fat? Hey! Maybe now would be a great time to start making healthier changes in your life. There’s entire groups of people out there dedicated to supporting each other presue healthy lifestyles. If you suffer from problem 1 as well, this solution ties right into it!
This is coming from an individual who was beaten as a child, picked on & bullied throughout school, lost everything in a house fire and my mother in a car accident.
Tragic, and yes it hurts that it all had to happen, but I know I shouldn’t let it rob me of all the years left to come. And I certainly know my mother wouldn’t want me to throw it out the window either. I hate that these things had to happen, but I don’t hate life because of it. In fact, I love being alive, and despite my hardships in the past, the life I live now I wouldn’t trade for anything else in the world.
I got through it. You can to. Quit being lazy about your shortcomings and FIX your life. If you don’t want to do that, then please leave quietly. Don’t post things like “I want to find a fast way to die”. Post for help, or keep your suicidal thoughts to yourself and stop wasting everyone’s time.
People don’t want to see others throw their lives away. What kind of dumb answers were you expecting?
I think Anonymous is not with us anymore…. I hate these Anonymous posts! It makes me think of someone who throws a rock at your car and runs away because they can not face the consequences.
I think of buying a .40 caliber gun and putting it under my chin and pulling the trigger every day,then i think of my four year old son,he is the only thing that prevents me from doing so.We do have choices in life but if your choices are limited to bring you from one desperatly sucking situation to another then why not end the cycle.no one knows whats on the other end cuz no one has came back to tell ,,we are all just a ball of chaotic concious energy in a temporary body anyway so if your not happy in this life and never will be,,set the energy free to find another vehicle to take over,,the universe is infinite and we are part of it,,we are made of stardust literally,,,the same stuff that stars are made of so are we,,we will just re join the universe as a whole and at one time come back as something else,,maybe a plant or a planet or a shooting star,,its not so cut and dry ,,,oh you kill yourself your bad and its over the end,,,,the universe doesnt work like that,,,do the scientific research,,you can kill the body but the spirit and soul live on eternally,,,just be carefull because you will hurt those left behind wich is why you have to explain and make amends with whoever it is,,do it right,,
Don’t commit suicide just say out
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I think of it alot to end it. I have tried and tried before. I got help the first one just put me on some meds and send me away. I have everything I could ever what I missed it up in ways that are unheard that I cannot go back to my life I had. You think how could anyone do what I done. I have been in numerous events in my life that i don’t want to live. I think about it every minute when can I go when is the right time and I know there is no turning back when I do it and I’m ready to go to the other side. I’m ready to end this **** called life ready to do it.
Thsi world is only for the people who have plenty of money; only for millionaires. If you are poor, you just can enjoy the life. If you are poor your live is just hard work, no good job oportunities and no time to hang out whit friends. If you are millionaire the life is great, you get the better jobs from your ruch friends (or you work at your own corporations), you have to work realy hard too, but you have enought of free time to enjoy the like hanging out whit your friends (play golf, ski, nice restorants, etc). If you have money you can have a girlfriend, and you can take her to nie shops, dinner, vacations. In one single work, if you are millionare the life is just GREAT, if you are billionaire the life is twice GREAT.
The is a reason for the rich people and our goverments try to stop us from commit suicide, that reason is to have enought people to work to create their wealth.
If you are millionaire i feel good envy for you, please enjoy every instant of you life, do me a favor, enjoy the life for me too.
If you are poor like me, you only have the same opcion than me , kill yourself and stop the agony.
The human race is alone in this world. We can not comunicate with anothers live creatures and our live is too short. If you born in a wealthy family, you have a lot of posibilities to enjoy you live and to know the small world inside we live; how ever, if you born in a poor family ( this is my case ) you are convicted to live in total ignorance of your world, living in the same city without to visit other places, doing the same work for ever; in one sentence, your routine and your town would be your jail.
If you are so ignorant to know or understand what i said in the last parragraf, may be you would be happy, but if know a little, you won’t be satisfied with your life.
If you are not satisfied with your life, you can change it, but you will need to get money in order to be able to change it. You need money and you need NOW. How many?, well it depends of your expectation, how ever, if you want to have the life i want to, you will need something like US$ 3.000.000.000,00.
If you don’t get the money you need to change your life, you will always have a sweet option: COMMIT SUICIDE ( like me ).
It’s realy dificult to live in this world without friends who give you suport and a girlfriend who loves you. The idea to habe a best friend is to have the posibility to share ideas and helpyou to experiment everything whitout question. If you are alone in this world, if you don’t have friends, best friend and a girlfriend, your life will be harder. All the great men need a bestfriend and a girlfriend beacause being alone you can do nothing. Being alone is to be a solitary person, and solitary persons are weirde. (just like me, weirde and bizarre).
I don’t know how much can i keep living this awful life, if i don’t get all i want i won’t have another option that commit suicide. Last wednesday i tried see if a car accident is the best way to kill myself; result of the test: US$350.00 of damage in my car but me perfect. That’s socks.
I hate my university, i hate my bank acount, i hate that i don’t have friends and girlfriend, i hate my job. In one single word, i hate all my LIFE.
It feels good to know other people feel as horrible as me. Why do I feel better just because I know your life sucks too, I don’t understand but thanks. I doubt anybody will ever read this but it feels good to write and take my mind off of things. I have had depression for twelve years now but it hasn’t been until three years ago that things have really gotten bad. Three years ago I knew I had to make a change so I started going to therapy. They numbed my pain with cymbalta. A few months later I got boned in the *** by life. I started to get more depressed than I have ever been (I don’t know how that feeling can even exist, it is so horrible). If you’ve felt that way then you know what I’m talking about. I started cutting myself and getting very interested into serial killers. I was curious to know what was going on in a serial killers mind, so I tried thinking like one. I told this behavior to my therapist and she took me to crisis. The lady that worked there nearly put me in a mental home but I convinced her that it was just my medicine ******* with my mind. They took me off of the cymbalta (GOD those were a sick few days). I rode a roller coaster and felt no thrill, no joy, nothing was fun. I had to fake like I was having a good time so my friends would still like me. I managed to still make it to work, I don’t know how I did that. After those sick days were over I started taking wellbutrin. It worked for a while but I got depressed again. Two years ago I thought there was no way I could get any more depressed than I was and couldn’t imagine living in agonizing pain for even one more day. I’ve contemplated suicide but I could never go through with it. My depression continues to get worse every day, I can’t fight anymore I just want to be done. Accidently finding this web site has sustained me for one more day, thanks.
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