Love help: maybe I should stop nagging.(NEED FAST ADVICE).. - Help.com

I wish I knew the answer to this, really.

But I don’t. :/

I think you should just point blank ask him why he is no longer in love with you. It could be more than the talking, maybe you guys just drifted apart. I think it has to be something more because he has been with you for 15 years so he knows that you are a talker. Also, as much as you talk is as much as you should listen. He’s not a talker tell him that’s fine but let him know that you are there when he wants to talk ready to listen. Could he be seeing someone else? I would suggest marriage couseling if both of you want to save this marriage. In the end you cannot stop being you just to get him to love you because you won’t love yourself for being someone your not. A compromise where you both change a little but still be true to yourself is good. JMO. Good luck.

I don’t think you can change from being a talker, if you managed it would probably change too many other things, too.
But follow Cotton’s advice and try to listen. Also try to not be negative in your talking, like critisizing or complaining.

Give him his space i learnt the hard way when i didnt. I did exactly what your doing try to get an answer just to explain why but he just got more distant and further away (to another woman)I read women are from venus and men are from mars and daft as it sounds it really helps explain why men dont talk and why we do after reading it i bagan to understand not to “nag” as such.Instead of asking him talk to a close friend and im sure eventually he’ll come round. Good Luck hope it all works out!