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what do you do when your girlfriend ignores you for

no apparent reason for days at a time then acts like nothing happened

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therookisnigh offline Unverified User #
Flagstaff, AZ, US | 5 years, 5 months ago (2 minutes after post)

maybe she just doesnt realizer its happening.she might be a busy person just tell her it bugs you maybe she will change for ya

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5 years, 5 months ago (3 minutes after post)

…you thank god that her period is over and that you’re still alive.

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Ultimo, 02, AU | 5 years, 5 months ago (8 minutes after post)

you either:

- You stealthy try to find out about what she is doing, then you take a decision.

or

- You have a chat with her and calmly sort things out

or

- you move on if you think that trust is no longer present in your relationship coz…mm… i think relationship is based on trust… that’s the most important…
But find out first.. Don’t jump to conclusions too fast… Talk to her…

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julisabowerma offline Verified User (5 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
CA | 5 years, 5 months ago (7 hours, 18 minutes after post)

ask her why she was ignoring you.

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shadow-te offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 5 years, 1 month ago (4 months after post)

just ignore her.. she’s a *****.. then she will come back crying just watch man.. just watch

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terri_lea1 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 9 months ago (8 months, 3 weeks after post)

mate trust me on this. ignore her back. its that hard but it works. they get really insecure and want you more when you give them the silent treatment. you gotta be the man.

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lrjhb/w offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 7 months ago (10 months, 1 week after post)

im gay

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setjhab offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 1 month ago (1 year, 4 months after post)

show no desparation, ingore her too, make no move, no phone calls, wait and watch. give her a space, the opportunity to miss you. NEVA PUT YOUR LIFE ON HOLD

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An Unknown Location | 4 years ago (1 year, 4 months after post)

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jtsmith33 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 11 months ago (1 year, 6 months after post)

throw the meat to other girls….

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harman_405 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 2 months ago (2 years, 2 months after post)

if she ignores just let her , dont treat her the same way she treats you and i’m sure she will realize what she’s doing.

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aidenlee188 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 1 month ago (2 years, 3 months after post)

yh i think i am gunna have to b the man n give her the same kinda treatment too! Its been 4 days now n i got myself in states where im so upset n dnt know where i stand with her.. she loves me i know she does but this cnt go on.. time 4 things to change nw.. 2 can play that game..

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Scirc offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (2 years, 7 months after post)

Lol

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Blackass22 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (2 years, 8 months after post)

OK so I ingored her back it she got SUPER pissed off. SO I appologized. Now its right back where it was where she is ignoring me. Did I just totally blow it? Should I have held my ground? Should I have called her out on her ignoring me? Ther are lots of good first steps here but no follow up. Whats the next step?

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antonio.canales4 offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (2 years, 9 months after post)

just be ur slef in act lke nothin happend itll wear off

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antonio.canales4 offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (2 years, 9 months after post)

just be ur selff act lke nun hapend shell waer off it soon ask me qwestion ahahha my name antonio ahaha yuup pce out babes

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coofoowarcraf offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (3 years after post)

Why would you appologize? Be the man but don’t be cocky or an *******, but don’t let women talk down on you. It sounds like shes got a problem. Ask her whats the matter? Why is she ignoring you? If you can’t communicate look for another girl now.

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niraj.kumar0 offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 4 months ago (3 years, 1 month after post)

Ignore her back..its d good solution…coz noone never knows girls internal mentality…if she realizes den def she ll come back else leave her ..dere are a lot of options kept sorrounded u…be a man n live ur life…

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shelly846 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (3 years, 2 months after post)

therookisnigh wrote:
maybe she just doesnt realizer its happening.she might be a busy person just tell her it bugs you maybe she will change for ya

im 10 its true but shes in 5th im in 4th

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von737 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (3 years, 2 months after post)

my fiance is doing it to me now and i feel like ****…. im thinking she is a waste of money and my time… I dont treat her like this and im not about to let her walk all over me… so when she comes home from work i will be packed and gone life is to short to put up with this crap!!!

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chadwick.goodfello offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (3 years, 6 months after post)

your–` so correct!!@ therz 1000-’z women out there!

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duwart1 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (4 years, 1 month after post)

u could txt her saying “i guess ur not there or whatever” or “i gueess i’ll ttyl i’ll leave u alone” it always works for me.

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