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sunshinealik offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Denver, NC, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (0 minutes after post)

hey.
whats up=]]]

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Help me with: this makes me sooo mad.
loveme4me11 offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
Cleveland, OH, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (0 minutes after post)

me too i just text my dude and broke up with him

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Mutilatedwonderland offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Pittsburgh, PA, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (0 minutes after post)

You are free to IM me, e-mail me, or message me.

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themanupstair offline Unverified User #
Flagstaff, AZ, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (1 minute after post)

umm…ok? hows your day going? : )

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themanupstair offline Unverified User #
Flagstaff, AZ, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (1 minute after post)

wow..its kinda ****** up to break up with someone over a text..o0

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Anonymous #
1 year, 11 months ago (2 minutes after post)

well im in the uk so for me its 5.42am, im still awake from yesterday so not that good

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loveme4me11 offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
Cleveland, OH, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (5 minutes after post)

everyweekend his phone is off or dead he claim plus things aint the same any more

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themanupstair offline Unverified User #
Flagstaff, AZ, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (5 minutes after post)

why dont youjust go to sleep thern that sounds like the ebst thing for you to doXD

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vikjae offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Toronto, ON, CA | 1 year, 11 months ago (5 minutes after post)

Whats wrong?

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themanupstair offline Unverified User #
Flagstaff, AZ, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (6 minutes after post)

im not saying dont break up with him,im saying do it in person geez

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Million Dollar Chick offline Verified User (1 year, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Manhattan, NY, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (6 minutes after post)

What’s on ur mind

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Anonymous #
1 year, 11 months ago (6 minutes after post)

i cnt sleep otherwise i would of been tucked up in bed ages ago :( wot time is it over there?

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m.polo. offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Germantown, WI, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (7 minutes after post)

Do you have IM?

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Anonymous #
1 year, 11 months ago (8 minutes after post)

no i don’t have it

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themanupstair offline Unverified User #
Flagstaff, AZ, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (10 minutes after post)

its almost 11:00 at night lol.its just im having issues myself so i cnat sleepXD

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m.polo. offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Germantown, WI, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (11 minutes after post)

well i’ll talk to you if you want. i’m not quite sure how though.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 11 months ago (13 minutes after post)

y cnt u sleep themanupstair?

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themanupstair offline Unverified User #
Flagstaff, AZ, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (17 minutes after post)

well,i kinda maybe just made the one girl who really liked me unbeleivably sad : (
plus..its snowing..i love the snow so i cnat sleep i like to just watch it fall in the moonlight^^;which sounds stupid in typeXD

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Anonymous #
1 year, 11 months ago (19 minutes after post)

aw i love snow, i no exaclty what u mean. shame about the girl, i no how it feels to be made sad by the person u love, but less about that! where is az? sorry don’t no usa at all, probably one state is about the size of england!

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themanupstair offline Unverified User #
Flagstaff, AZ, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (21 minutes after post)

arizona is wayy off in the southwest of the usa,and were in the middle of a desert so snow is really rare!: ) lol isnt oit really snowing in england right now?

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Anonymous #
1 year, 11 months ago (26 minutes after post)

ah, see i was thinking arizona and therefore desert but thought i must be wrong. wow i never new it snowed in deserts. no where i am its just wet and really windy, would love it if it snowed loads so i could go mess around in it and have a laugh

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themanupstair offline Unverified User #
Flagstaff, AZ, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (28 minutes after post)

yeah thats a;lot of peoples ideas of the desertXD but really its been snowing like for 2 days lol. i like it when its windy too though because it makes my house creak kinda helps me sleep : ) but..obviously its not that way with you or you wouldnt be up. come to az then!XD

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1 year, 11 months ago (33 minutes after post)

lol ok i’d love to, the snow must be amazing if its been 2 days. when it does snow here it’s rubbish, there is only a little bit and it rarely settles so no good to get covered in. i dnt like the wind, it scares me a bit lol, and i live opposite alot of flags so it makes a weird noise as the move in the wind, i think its the metal rings hitting the poles

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themanupstair offline Unverified User #
Flagstaff, AZ, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (37 minutes after post)

i think the answer is simple,go out there right now and duct tape the rings to the poles so they cnat ringXDmaybe then you can get some sleep lol. yeah its like almost a foot now : )

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Anonymous #
1 year, 11 months ago (39 minutes after post)

lol yeah if only, there not the reason i cnt sleep though, just got so much stuff going on in my head now for a while, kinda got used to the whole nocturnal thing. wow y rnt u outside playing in it? i doesn’t matter how old u are snow is always fun!

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themanupstair offline Unverified User #
Flagstaff, AZ, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (42 minutes after post)

well if you like you can vent to me and i might be able to help widf the stuff flying in ur head : ) yeah me to much to the despise of my recruiter who likes to wake me up at 5 lol.im 18,and cuz its really cold and theres no one to help me build a snowman,atleast noone awake.my friend enrique freakin passed out on me 3 hrs agoXD

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1 year, 11 months ago (50 minutes after post)

that is the problem with snow, its soo cold, takes abit of the fun out of it when u start to go numb. i don’t no where to start with my problems tbh! basically i moved away from home 2 months ago to go to university, but im not really enjoying it coz i got depression and missed my boyfriend loads, then last month we broke up coz its so hard being away and me constantly crying to him and venting all my problems on him. we’re ’seeing how things go’ with each other but he’s changed alot i think frok the things he’s been saying and has become alot more flirtatious, he has still be faithful but he done some stupid things messing around when he’s drunk that have upset me, and me being the jelouse paranoid person i am due to trust issues from an ex feel slightly knocked and am finding it a little bit difficult to trust him so am always questioning him. and going home on wednesday for a month and we’re spending wed afternoon and evening together, but im just really worried that he has just gone off me even more and that his flirting is because he wants to be with other people, even though he keeps saying he wants to try, but he says himself he doesn’t no y he has suddenly become so flirty, i am so worrie that when i get back he will jsut be flirting with everyone and i won;t be able to cope, he’s such a nice guy i dnt want to be without him. wow sorry thats long, but definatly y i cnt sleep, even when im not thinking about it!

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themanupstair offline Unverified User #
Flagstaff, AZ, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (55 minutes after post)

lol so the usual then?I think its perfectly normal to have these feelings,i mean i think stuff liek that all the time when im going out with a girl its just human instinct.And the fact that your farther away only makes it so you see the ‘change’ of his personality more unbiased…ly?. If he says hes faithful i say just beleiuve him till he proves otherwise,or enough evidence is brought forth to make a good guess. just hit him a little.Not to hard! and tell him your the only girl for him so quit hitting on other girls or hes not getting any. :Patleast that seems like the most normal response i think^^; sorry if this doesnt help at all lol

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1 year, 11 months ago (59 minutes after post)

lol thanks, i think he’s jsut unsure as well, i no he still cares about me but i think he just doesn’t no if he loves me or not, and i think perhaps he is just meeting new ppl that are slutty so they do stupid things like constantly grind him all the time, not just one girl loads of them! love is so annoying, i hate how it can just make u feel like this! all i wanna do is stop thinking bout it but its the hardest thing to do

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loveme4me11 offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
Cleveland, OH, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (1 hour, 3 minutes after post)

am tired of him and this bull and i would break up with him but he has the phone turned off

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britgirl offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (1 hour, 4 minutes after post)

y u tired of him? cnt u do it face 2 face?

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themanupstair offline Unverified User #
Flagstaff, AZ, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (1 hour, 4 minutes after post)

want me to kick his *** and make him shape up for ya?: )
you could take a sleep pill,or just naturally filter these through your mind till you just dont care anymore.theres no easy way for these feelings to go away you just have to let yourself become numb to them…and maybe not let other girls grind on him

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themanupstair offline Unverified User #
Flagstaff, AZ, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (1 hour, 7 minutes after post)

always break up with someone face to face sheesh,its the least you can do after theyve gotten emotionally involved

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loveme4me11 offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
Cleveland, OH, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (1 hour, 9 minutes after post)

whatever during the week we r all in love and he treats me like a queen, but when the weekend comes we always get in to a fight and he turns his phone off and ignore me

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britgirl offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (1 hour, 9 minutes after post)

tried pills they didn’t work. cant belive i just dont feel tired, didn’t help getting up so late, it sounds odd but its nice to tlk to ppl. i feel so alone down here even though i’ve made friends

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britgirl offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (1 hour, 10 minutes after post)

whats different at weekend?

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themanupstair offline Unverified User #
Flagstaff, AZ, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (1 hour, 13 minutes after post)

well i always liek to talk about random thigns at odd hours so if you ever feel lonely just drop a email.: )
Its fine if your not tired,besides once the sun comes up your body goes into a sustaining system,which shuts down when its dark.so you’ll probably be ok for the day i think.why dont you just talk to some of your real life friends then?

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britgirl offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (1 hour, 15 minutes after post)

thanks. theres only one of my flat mates in and he’s in bed. i do tlk to them but its always late at night when i feel like talking the most so everyone is alseep. i think i’ll prob just stay awake now, perhaps have a power nap for an hour or so later

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themanupstair offline Unverified User #
Flagstaff, AZ, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (1 hour, 20 minutes after post)

oh,but dam this is a fake email.heres me real one if you seriosuly want it (email removed)
yeah im the same way :/when it gets really late i feel l;ike talking but if i call anyone they are ussually pissed cuz its so late,thats why im a party person lol. man power naps always just make me more tired it like just tells my body i need more sleep or soemthing

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britgirl offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (1 hour, 22 minutes after post)

lol yeah im the same. i used to be a party person but since i came to uni, the time im my life when i should b, i dnt feel like it, mb i feel there is so much pressure to go out and do it or something i dunno. yeah that is a gd point, mb i’ll sleep all afternoon then, coz im out 2morrow night 4 once!

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themanupstair offline Unverified User #
Flagstaff, AZ, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (1 hour, 25 minutes after post)

thats weird comon go party now your free make bad decisions and suchXD eh i ship out in awhile so i gotta party now before i cant anymore lol. i think im done for the night i gotta get up early,nice talking to you : ) see ya around

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britgirl offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (1 hour, 27 minutes after post)

yeah you to thaks for tlking!

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whore199 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (12 hours, 49 minutes after post)

hey im loney too we sould talk sometime

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Anonymous #
1 year, 11 months ago (12 hours, 52 minutes after post)

If you want to talk to someone here’s my msn/email address:
x_o321(at)hotmail(dot)com

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pandasrocmyso offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Chandler, AZ, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (13 hours, 6 minutes after post)

hello
i emailed u

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emochic offline Unverified User #
Chatswood, 02, AU | 1 year, 11 months ago (17 hours after post)

datsnice

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shyann200 offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Edmonton, AB, CA | 1 year, 9 months ago (2 months, 2 weeks after post)

hello my name is carebare and I would like to help people who need to talk about anything?
I just want too help other>

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SMACKED999 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (7 months after post)

Hi, I saw you’r post, and thought you needed some companey. So first things first, whats you name, how old are you and where do you live??.whats gone on in your life? E.G pernts,friends,boy/girl friends,accidents,failures,achivements or any thing in you’rlifethats stood out to you…
If you ever need help with anything, contact me at my email address, I’ll be here for you, Every body needs a stranger to talk to…
thans…sean:)

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kys offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (7 months, 2 weeks after post)

I’m so freakin bored imma bout to lose my mind….plllz help

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jmbui offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (1 year after post)

This whole setup is retarded

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kridle_ offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (1 year, 8 months after post)

im so alone since i lost my baby and my boyfriend is having a baby with another woman i dont know wat to do i cant speak to anyone i just keep gettin in ppl’s way wat can i do coz i cant do this anymore . my bf doesnt understand and i cant speak to him as im so jealous of the fact he’s still having his child all of my friends have kids as well and im starting to resent them too im not a bad person and i dont want ppl to hate me cos of the way i feel but i keep pushing every one away

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rande offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (1 year, 8 months after post)

i would like to talk to a female. about life ,love, lonelyness, kids, grandkids, and just share in conversation i cant get from my wife. she doesnt know i have feelings and needs also that need to be fullfilled. just confused, and lonely i guess.Can you help? thank you.

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