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I kinda like my best friend…

We are really close and hang out like every day. we have known eachother since we were little and for some reason, now I just like him more than a friend. He is really nice, funny, cute, caring, and everything I would want in a guy :P!! but my problem is.. what if he found out that i liked him? would it effect our friendship? would he not want to be around me cuz its uncomfortable to know that ur best friend likes u?? I dont know what would happen if he ever found out- or how he would react.

Now, i get nervous around him, which NEVER happened before, and I act wierd around him. He keeps asking me whats wrong, but I just keep coming up with excuses, I cant hold it in anymore, so i am getting really worried that he wouldnt want to be around me because of this.

what should I do?

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jadis_daynadar 15 #
Tuxedo, NC, US | 5 years, 5 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Do you have reason to believe he could return these feelings?

Do you have reason to believe he could return these feelings?

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An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 5 months ago (7 minutes after post)

well, sometimes he is hard to understand, you dont know how he will react to certain things, he is very sensitive, and I just dont really know.. Its hard to tell how he would react. I dont really have a reason, its just hard to tell how he reacts, he’s sensitive..

well, sometimes he is hard to understand, you dont know how he will react to certain things, he is very sensitive, and I just dont really know.. Its hard to tell how he would react. I dont really have a reason, its just hard to tell how he reacts, he's sensitive..

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An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 5 months ago (13 minutes after post)

yeah, but if he says no to this, wont it seem wierd when around eachother?- just thinking about it makes me worried. I guess I will only find out if i tell him..

yeah, but if he says no to this, wont it seem wierd when around eachother?- just thinking about it makes me worried. I guess I will only find out if i tell him..

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jadis_daynadar 15 #
Tuxedo, NC, US | 5 years, 5 months ago (17 minutes after post)

It’s one of those choices you just have to make. If you’re that good of friends, unless someone else is involved it’s best to try it. Otherwise you’ll never know what you could have missed.

It's one of those choices you just have to make. If you're that good of friends, unless someone else is involved it's best to try it. Otherwise you'll never know what you could have missed.

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An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 5 months ago (25 minutes after post)

thanks :)

thanks :)

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mickey.wild9 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 5 months ago (1 hour, 13 minutes after post)

my best friend has had crushes on 2 of her best friends before that were boyz. one of them figured it out, and they didnt talk for bout a week but now they are happy and NOT going out, srry i dont really have any advice 4 u!!!

my best friend has had crushes on 2 of her best friends before that were boyz. one of them figured it out, and they didnt talk for bout a week but now they are happy and NOT going out, srry i dont really have any advice 4 u!!!

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An Unknown Location | 5 years, 5 months ago (9 hours, 2 minutes after post)

I think you have to tell him , he has to know how do you feel about it him & give him the choice . You don’t want him to tell you one day that he some girl asked him out & he said yes , & you would regret that you kept your feeling to yourself , you would wonder what would happen if you say it before the other girl .

I think you have to tell him , he has to know how do you feel about it him & give him the choice . You don’t want him to tell you one day that he some girl asked him out & he said yes , & you would regret that you kept your feeling to yourself , you would wonder what would happen if you say it before the other girl .

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elaeh #
Onalaska, WI, US | 5 years, 5 months ago (2 weeks, 1 day after post)

its like what is happening to me but im a guy lol i like one of my best friends who i hang with alot and i had our friend andrea talk to her but lik she was like (u and ethan make a good couple u flirt alot) but she was like(e hes like my brother but i do like him alot) then andria was like (yah but u 2 r rly cute and i think he likes u u can tell by how much u 2 flirt ) an then she said (yah but we r like brother and sister for now =)

its like what is happening to me but im a guy lol i like one of my best friends who i hang with alot and i had our friend andrea talk to her but lik she was like (u and ethan make a good couple u flirt alot) but she was like(e hes like my brother but i do like him alot) then andria was like (yah but u 2 r rly cute and i think he likes u u can tell by how much u 2 flirt ) an then she said (yah but we r like brother and sister for now =)

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Saint Johns, MI, US | 5 years, 4 months ago (2 weeks, 3 days after post)

wow. i am going throught almost the same thing, except he has a girlfreind. ne one got advice for me??

wow. i am going throught almost the same thing, except he has a girlfreind. ne one got advice for me??

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limitedpny9 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (6 months after post)

Going through the same thing, the other day he grabbed me n had me sit on his lap and everyone was askin if we were together cause I guess we kept “holding” eachother. Idk what to do cause I think I really like him.

Going through the same thing, the other day he grabbed me n had me sit on his lap and everyone was askin if we were together cause I guess we kept "holding" eachother. Idk what to do cause I think I really like him.

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