friends help: This sucks.

{SendMeAnAngel}

This sucks.

I seem to be losing friends due to my obligations. I have no problem helping out my family during this hard time but, I know that my friends have begun to give up on me when it comes to anything involving social gatherings. I make attempts to go when I can (maybe 1 out of 5 times) but I think they still wonder why they invite me anywhere. It’s a lonely place to be and although I know I will be ok, it does bother me to an extent. I can’t openly discuss what’s going on with them so, any suggestions on how I deal with the solitude? thanks…

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Eric. 19 #
Los Angeles, CA, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (2 minutes after post)

If I were you, I would explain to them that there are problems within your family that you need to do your best to solve. If they are truly your friends, they will understand and be patient with you.

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drgnqueen_rocks 0 #
Winton, CA, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (33 minutes after post)

honestly true friends will never give up on you they may not completely understand whats going on! but true friends help you and trust in you through hard times and expect you to do the same , what you should do is talk to them about whats going on and make sure they know your not just blowing them off. they will hopefully understand and try to help you get through! if you need some one to talk to or just want to talk my yahoo is the same as my screen name im here if you need to talk. have a nice day

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Destiny 4 #
Jacksonville, FL, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (40 minutes after post)

yea i agree with everyone else true friends are there for you. and will not ever turn their back on you. even when they are mad at you.

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XXashXX 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (1 hour, 18 minutes after post)

Like everyone else has said if they are true friends they would never leave yu or give up on you. Try talking to them about whats going on, and if they and I think that they will help you if they can. If you cant talk to them in person then try sending them an email or talking to them through the computer. Hang in there! You will be ok.

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