girl help: i like a girl who is two years younger then me and she has a boyfriend, im 16 shes 14, do you think that is wrong?

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i like a girl who is two years younger then me and she has a boyfriend, im 16 shes 14, do you think that is wrong?

idk how she feels about me, and i dont want to tell her and have it turn out that she does like me and break her bf’s heart or something.

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edwardw818 0 #
Monterey Park, CA, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (1 hour after post)

As long as you’re not actually 18 and she’s 14 there’s nothing wrong with it per se… But it may be a bit on the unethical side to steal someone else’s girlfriend.

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1 year, 11 months ago (1 hour, 2 minutes after post)

i know thats why i dont want to tell her, i would totally tell her that i like her if she wasnt going out with someone

Hahaha123 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (1 hour, 9 minutes after post)

well than mate you’ve got yourslef a problem. word to the wise though… think how she would feel trusting you, if you dont respect relationships. Let her know how you feel- just dont over do it and let her know you dont want to be in the way of her and her partner.
Best of luck!

pinkze #
Bonduel, WI, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (1 hour, 18 minutes after post)

I dont think its wrong at all. my boyfriend and i are almost 3 years apart, hes turning 19 in 2 months and i just turned 16. The best saying i have ever heard is age is mind over matter, if you dont mind then it shouldnt matter.

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Palmer, AK, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (1 hour, 21 minutes after post)

yeah age dosnt matter…just tell her how u feel like kolakju said dont over do it…u cant help how u feel…

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undeveloped 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (4 hours, 15 minutes after post)

my soon to be gf if 2 years younger than i am, age doesnt realli matter. its a problem tho with her havin a bf already. u should wait until her n her bf end their relationship before you get involved with her. u can hang out with her as friends, but nothing more yet.

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TysonChristopherHedl 0 #
Applecross, 02, AU | 1 year, 11 months ago (1 week after post)

There is nothing wrong with you’re attraction to her..
I’m 16 and i like a girl who is 12 Year’s old we have known each other for years..
So if you like her Go For IT!

www.Dian #
US | 1 year, 10 months ago (3 weeks, 2 days after post)

It’s something with liking a women who’s not a man already. your 16 and she’s what 14 and already has a boyfriend. leave her alone please…she doesn’t even swing that way.. and she’s taken to.. find somebody who is singel and get with them are wait for them to come to you..

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Applecross, 02, AU | 1 year, 10 months ago (3 weeks, 2 days after post)

That didn’t make sense…

IngeniousNotCrazy 1 #
Scottsville, VA, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (1 month after post)

I think it’s more disturbing that a 14 year old has a boyfriend in the first place.

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TysonChristopherHedl 0 #
Applecross, 02, AU | 1 year, 10 months ago (1 month after post)

Exactly, i broke up with my girlfriend

gats #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (2 months, 1 week after post)

I hawe gf 13 age old and i am 17.but e have good realationship and i **** her.everytingh okey

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beach_black 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (2 months, 4 weeks after post)

just tell her how you feel, i know it may not be easy.. :(
but just dont expect anything from her because like what you said she is committed to someone else..

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (5 months, 1 week after post)

dont worry bro, my girl is 2 years younger than me.. i dont see any problem with it. some people do, but i dont care, i punch the **** out of them sayin stuff about me and my girl. its what inside that matters, if u love her than go 4 it!

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (6 months, 3 weeks after post)

Thats not wrong at all i just got asked out by a 13 year old and im 15 so same thing really…she asked me for a romantic note but i have no idea what to say?

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jody4_lif 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (7 months, 2 weeks after post)

there’s nothing wrong if she’s 2 years younger than you. the only thing matters is if you love each other.

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kim. 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (7 months, 3 weeks after post)

I wouldn’t say that the age thing is so much of a problem.
But if she already has a boyfriend, then you should respect the fact that she is in a relationship.
Wait until she is available if you are going to tell her anything.

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crage 2 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (1 year, 1 month after post)

Now what about her parents? I want to go out with a girl who is almost thirteen and I’m almost fifteen, but I’m afraid to ask because i’m not sure how her parents will react? Any help here?

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (1 year, 7 months after post)

niggers would end this

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boo #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (1 year, 9 months after post)

i dont really have a range but i met this girl and we have been talking now for like 2mouths but im 19 (like a mouth go) and she only 14 but when i met her she was with older people so i didnt ask her age and i only found out like a week ago

is that to much of a gap at your ages ?

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