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I met a girl and agreed to do some graphics stuff for

her company,,,now we hang out quite often,,, usually because she says she wants to “talk” about our working plans but never brings the material she says she wants to discuss….
Now her boyfriend is getting kinda ancy and giving her trouble for meeting with me so much. I kinda don’t blame him, I mean we are going to dinner and movies and stuff ….I told her that it is kinda “dating” … but she assures me its a friend thing.
Do you think I should stop doing the extra cirricular stuff with her and risk losing a really good business opportunity?

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kittykatkate92 offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Tulare, CA, US | 1 year, 12 months ago (13 minutes after post)

Well, if you are desprate for money, and don’t have much dignity, then continue. But I think it better if you tell her you don’t feel confortable going places with her, like movies, unless her bf goes.

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evangee offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Malton, ON, CA | 1 year, 12 months ago (19 minutes after post)

You dont think her “friend” argument could be genuine? Like she hasnt made any moves or anything… maybe she just likes hanging out?

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kittykatkate92 offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Tulare, CA, US | 1 year, 12 months ago (24 minutes after post)

Maybe,or she is a typical girl, and is waiting for you to hit on her. Don’t fall for it. We females can be tricksters. And have you ever met her bf???

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evangee offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Malton, ON, CA | 1 year, 12 months ago (12 hours, 35 minutes after post)

haha, right after I read this I started thinking that I may be reading a little too much into it, and then I went on facebook and she sent me a pair of furry cuffs and a shaved beaver. Hmmmm.

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wolfpacku offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 1 year, 12 months ago (18 hours, 22 minutes after post)

Hmmmmm. Much trouble in this quarry do I sense. Clouded by the darkside the future is…

I think the but then again, i dont know squat about the situation other than this short convo.

My advice…. ask her. be honest with her. and if she is Hot/you like her, then finish the pproject, and as Green goblin says: “do what you need to with her, then broom her fast”

a girl that cheats on her bf with you, is just going to cheat on you with the next clown, believe me, it has happened to me.

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evangee offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Malton, ON, CA | 1 year, 12 months ago (18 hours, 24 minutes after post)

Lol, yea thats the thing though.. I’m not into her.. like at all. But the money thing is good,lol. So hang out, be straight and hope the bf doesnt kill me?

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wolfpacku offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 1 year, 12 months ago (18 hours, 26 minutes after post)

if the money is that good, you should deffinatly “do what you need to with her” so as to get more work in the future. just make it clear your doing her a favor that you expect to be paid back someday. lol

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evangee offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Malton, ON, CA | 1 year, 12 months ago (18 hours, 34 minutes after post)

haha….

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n1lko offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Coventry, RI, US | 1 year, 12 months ago (21 hours, 57 minutes after post)

keep it up, number 1 if shes giving you bussiness, then cool, number 2 maybe she likes you, number 3 maybe she is just a flirty-ish person by nature

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kittykatkate92 offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Tulare, CA, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (1 day, 16 hours after post)

I say you should tell her you aren’t into her. Atleast then you still have your integridy. It’s all a matter of weather you are willing to put all of your beliefs off, because the pay is good.

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