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I am 16 years old and I am a little over 3 months pregnant.

I am in a relationship with my boyfriend of seven months and I am actually living with him in his parent’s house. The only reason that I am there is because my mom and my dad don’t want me. I lived with my mom forever , but tensions between me and my step-dad eventually got to the point where we really couldn’t live together and after a pretty brutal fight I was kicked out. I tried to live with my dad and it lasted two months , but the fact that he is an alcoholic and has a hair trigger temper , quite like myself, lead to me being kicked out.

so my boyfriends parents took me in even before we all found out that I was pregnant. I have been living here for a couple of months and I can’t stand it anymore . His mother tries to control his every move and tries to keep him isolated here. She even got to the crazy point that when he filled out applications , she said that she would take them all as a favor and she decided to hide them in my room (that no one is ever in). And now that I am catching on to this , she is pushing to break up with me . I have no idea what to do . I can’t afford to leave especially not alone and I have absolutely no on in my family that willl help me. is there anything out there that can help me?

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katemonsoon 1 #
Louth, 19, IE | 10 months ago (18 minutes after post)

hi j, you’ve said that you have a temper just like your dad, and it does seem like you are arguing with alot of people. i dont think for one second that you are in the wrong, just maybe you could try to organise your feelings on paper first before expressing them. when you have them written try to see what might be mistaken as something offensive and then re-word it. when uv that done you should go talk to them. tell them exactly how your feeling. but remember, they were good enough to take you in when you had no where to go, so maybe they are trying to do the best for both of you…even if they do go wrong from time to time. we all make mistakes dont we?

hi j, you've said that you have a temper just like your dad, and it does seem like you are arguing with alot of people. i dont think for one second that you are in the wrong, just maybe you could try to organise your feelings on paper first before expressing them. when you have them written try to see what might be mistaken as something offensive and then re-word it. when uv that done you should go talk to them. tell them exactly how your feeling. but remember, they were good enough to take you in when you had no where to go, so maybe they are trying to do the best for both of you...even if they do go wrong from time to time. we all make mistakes dont we?

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Shie 193 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 10 months ago (22 hours, 51 minutes after post)

have you talked to your boyfriend and presented him with the applications showing him that she never handed them in for him? this should be proof that the mother is screwing with him.. and is trying to cause problems for the two of you.

have you talked to your boyfriend and presented him with the applications showing him that she never handed them in for him? this should be proof that the mother is screwing with him.. and is trying to cause problems for the two of you.

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j_lena420 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (6 days after post)

yeah I already showed him and I have already discussed with him my thoughts on it and he does agree that we need to get out of here. He asked her about the applications and she said that she didn’t know why they were there. I understand that he isn’t going to be completely angry with her like I am because it is his mother , but at the same time , I don’t know how to get it through his head that the things that I am saying are true.

yeah I already showed him and I have already discussed with him my thoughts on it and he does agree that we need to get out of here. He asked her about the applications and she said that she didn't know why they were there. I understand that he isn't going to be completely angry with her like I am because it is his mother , but at the same time , I don't know how to get it through his head that the things that I am saying are true.

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