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hi can you help?

, think my hubby is going to leave me, we have both been married before but he still runs around after the ex and will not ask her to go out of her way at all, please give me any advice as i’m stir crazy today

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brightshine 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (1 minute after post)

have you talk to him about your concerns?

Help me with: why did my email suddenly become invalid … even if I log in through the link sent via the e-mail account?

linda.hitchmoug #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (2 minutes after post)

yes, over the last few days , he’s now said it’s me and he’s moving out

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fourandahalflef #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (3 minutes after post)

how long have you been with him?

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linda.hitchmoug #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (5 minutes after post)

10 years married for 5, his children moved furhter away a couple of years ago and the only way we see them is by doing all the leg work, even though his ex is sometimes in the area he won’t ask her to drop them off in case they end up arguing, but it’s ok for us to fall out over it

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brightshine 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (6 minutes after post)

sounds like it is the best thing. if he wants to move out … why waste your valuable time with him. he sounds immature, having to blame you instead of taking ownership of his choice.

Help me with: why did my email suddenly become invalid … even if I log in through the link sent via the e-mail account?

linda.hitchmoug #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (6 minutes after post)

maybe you are right, bloody luv him though

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fourandahalflef #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (7 minutes after post)

it sounds like you deserve better

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fourandahalflef #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (8 minutes after post)

did he tell you his reason for wanting to leave?

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linda.hitchmoug #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (10 minutes after post)

i feel paranoid as he says it’s me being selfish, so i spoke to one of my family today and they said i wasn’t. tried to speak to him tonight and he just says that he needs to see the kids and he’ll do whatever is required, the thing is is doesn’t even ask her as he says she’ll say no anyway ( but ok to ask me etc..)

reason for leaving had enough of arguing and he’s not going to change, doesn’t want relate ( he’s older than me)

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linda.hitchmoug #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (12 minutes after post)

can i ask, do you see my email address when i mail?

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