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Boyfriend Communication.

We’ve been dating a year and a half and I feel as if in a rut, but I care very much about him. The biggest problem is communication. I try to tell him everything, but there have been so many times that I will mention something and he will act as if I never told him in the first place when I know I have on several occasions. It is a constant repeating game. And it is usually about very important things concerning my future, too… not piddly take out the garbage crap.

I live about fourty five minutes from him, and he hasn’t come to visit me for months. I only to go his place. I feel as if I am the one only placing phone calls. Basically I don’t want to give up on him but I feel as if this must be a lost cause. I mean, he can’t really care that much anymore if this feels like a one way relationship.

So basically this is what I’m wondering. I was supposed to go over to his place after work tomorrow, but then we got into another argument over the phone today (after I called of course) because of another one of those communication things. I think maybe I’ll just come home instead, and not call and see if he notices. See how long it takes before he bothers to see how I am for a change. See how long it takes before he comes to see me. Is this selfish? And if he doesn’t try to contact me for a week, maybe two weeks… well I know where we stand. I know there isn’t any point anymore.

Or is that all twisted logic?

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