Love help: How do you trust in someone about how they feel about you. - Help.com

no one would know exactly the level of another person’s sincerity. if you feel that the person is worthy of that trust, go for it.

WoW Sounds Like me..Now Iv Been Hurt Alot In My Past,So I Havent Really Dealt With the Breakup very well,Then Jumped Straight Into Another Relationship…I Say Dont Let Your Walls Down Just Yet,Keep them Up..And You Will Know When Your Ready.

my walls are always up! Then this one came along and bulldosed them down. Guess its healthy to be scared when you love someone that much, least you know it is real. and lilies, most definately worthy of it, just finding it hard not to tar them all with the same brush!

Well if Your Walls Are Already Down,Then You Know There Is Something Special About This Person.I Say In That Case..let Your Hair Down,Enjoy What You Got! And If it Does Go Wrong..You Know What To Do Next Time xx

Thanks very much. I hate heart ache and would do anything to avoid it, but you cant always can you.

Some say love it is a river
That drowns the tender reed.
Some say love it is a razor
That leaves your soul to bleed.

Some say love it is a hunger
An endless, aching need
I say love it is a flower,
And you its only seed.

It’s the heart afraid of breaking
That never learns to dance
It’s the dream afraid of waking
That never takes the chance

It’s the one who won’t be taken,
Who cannot seem to give
And the soul afraid of dying
That never learns to live.

When the night has been too lonely
And the road has been too long.
And you think that love is only
For the lucky and the strong.

Just remember in the winter
Far beneath the bitter snow
Lies the seed that with the sun’s love,
In the spring, becomes the rose.

I was like that. Im 18 and im with a guy who has a daughter with an absolute monster of an ex. she is awful and tries to make my life hell.

it took me about 4months to get over it. i think if you try hard enough to come to terms with something then you can, it may just take time. dont expect a quick fix.

also…remember that if you worry about it constantly its more likely to happen, and its more likely to push him away if you feel like this.

i think you have to be able to think to yourself, IF WE SPLIT UP, and not get upset. because if you believe its not likely to happen and your happy, then something like that wont upset you.

im in the first relationship where the thought of us splitting up doesnt get me upset, but not because we have the most unbelievable love, because i just dont expect it will happen.

talk to your partner about your worries, and please dont worry all the time. if you want this to work you have to promise each other to work things through, whenever you have a problem, try your hardest to sort it out calmly. never go to sleep on an argument.

and if it doesnt work out remember…

a broken heart continues to beat

Dont worry!
They love you and are telling the truth or they wouldnt be around.
Trust me worry is a BIG relationship ruiner
xxxx

Thanks everyone, I know that I am the one causing the problem with worrying unecessarily. I know he is the one, I just hope I’m his. I will talk to him about this.

Good. hope it goes well. and remember! you can still be in love with someone and be your own person, be an individual. good luck xx

MischiefDragon wrote:
“Love, if their is doubt, is not love.” - Unknown

sooooo true

Do you have a specific reason for doubt?