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Well there is this guy, and he is one of my best friends, i love talking to him and being around him.

oh yea, and we have gone out twice. the 1st time i thought he really liked me, then he hurt me, i decided that i still wanted to be friends b/c i liked him as a person. the second time he told me not to tell anybody, which i hated that but i just fell for him too hard to say no. now i just know that he is an a** toward all girls so i don’t like him. but now after we are starting to hang out again, i think i might start liking him again, which i don’t want to do. he is sweet, but he treats all of the girlfriends that he has had like possessions, not something to show off, but something that he has to have at all times. What should i do????

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morganhorse offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
US | 1 year, 11 months ago (5 minutes after post)

Dude, it sounds just like me and a certain guy. Liked him for THREE YEARS. He liked me a couple times throughout all that, unbeknownst to me. *looks annoyed* But anyway, he’s a jerk too. It’s hard to get over a guy when you can’t help but like him (believe me, I feel you’re pain!). If you DO end up actually going out with him, maybe you could tell him he has to be nice to you or it just won’t last long, and that you’re your own person, not his!

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Help me with: My friend knows this boy who likes her and she likes him back, and they’re pretty much going out.
morganhorse offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
US | 1 year, 11 months ago (10 minutes after post)

oh, and listen to “Since U Been Gone” by Kelly Clarkson. It might help with changing your mind about liking that guy

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Help me with: My friend knows this boy who likes her and she likes him back, and they’re pretty much going out.
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1 year, 11 months ago (11 minutes after post)

Why put yourself through that If you know how a MAN should Respect you, and treat you why tolerate it at all and set yourself up in situation like that? I have known guy s like that and why give a guy like that your time if hes just going to waste it, Give nd save it for someoene who really knows how to treat you! you letting him treat you like that and giving him chance and chance just lets him know, how easy he can get away with it.. If i were you i’d tell him its NO GO…

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