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Hey Guys,

I know this might sound a bit silly, but im having trouble opening subjects with people and carrying conversations, i spend all of my time with friends,mostly guys, but now i’ve shifted to spending time with close girls…thing is that i can’t carry the same convo i used to do with my friends with girls, i hope im being clear….with the guys we literally spend hours just talking, but i cant bring up the same subjects with the girls…
What am i supposed to do?
Thanks!

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'Bell offline Verified User (1 year, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (12 minutes after post)

I say spend some time with girls and guys in a group, might make it easier to build up a rapport but not under so much pressure and notice what subjects they are more interested and vocal in. Hope that helps.

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indigoooo offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
New York, NY, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (20 minutes after post)

i agree with tinkerbell and also don’t worry about it so much, you can say a lot more to girls than you think

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Brighton, P6, GB | 1 year, 11 months ago (38 minutes after post)

why not text them!!
ask them for their number then say you have to be somewhere.
this just means that you have more time to think about what to say!!

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1 year, 11 months ago (1 hour, 40 minutes after post)

i have their numbers and all! we talk daily and see each other at high school everyday …

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mou offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
AQ | 1 year, 11 months ago (2 hours, 18 minutes after post)

I’m assuming you’re a girl, right?

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1 year, 11 months ago (1 day, 6 hours after post)

No..

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mou offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
AQ | 1 year, 11 months ago (1 day, 15 hours after post)

Are you a teenage guy? This might just be a hormonal stage of awkwardness.

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