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i love a guy this is my first time any tips (i dont

know if he love me )

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aeolian mode offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 10 #
Rocklin, CA, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (1 minute after post)

tell him trust me.. it will start something really nice…You guys work out the details

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shitnut offline Unverified User #
Ottawa, ON, CA | 1 year, 11 months ago (1 minute after post)

well how old r u

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love-gir offline Unverified User #
PS | 1 year, 11 months ago (2 minutes after post)

13. i cant tell him cuz there is no love in our country our religian is al-eslam so i cant tell min

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'Bell offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (6 minutes after post)

Just be yourself, let it grown naturally and dont be afraid to be who you really are. Be honest.

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Spring, TX, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (6 minutes after post)

Tell him trust is everything in a relationship be honest and tell him if he does not love u back give him time

LoVe,
BrItT

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PS | 1 year, 11 months ago (16 minutes after post)

guys u cant understand my prp …. i cant tell him i will me dead then cuz our relegian (al elslam )… wjat can i do .. plz help any tips ?!?

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PS | 1 year, 11 months ago (17 minutes after post)

plz guys heeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeelp

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kehsihba offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Bangkok, 40, TH | 1 year, 11 months ago (31 minutes after post)

heyy..lissn..its not always necessary to hurry so much..ur just thirteen..u probably don love him..its just a crush..i cn undrstand ur problem about ur religion..don try to force it rite now..giv it tym..once u know..giv him subtle hints..if he replies to thm..go on..if he doesn thn back off..i know u cant do nethn outright n be frank n open..n dont..a “crush”(im callin it a crush..bcoz at 13..it most probably is one)..isn worth as much trouble..ol da best!!

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Dragonlady offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Eagle Lake, ME, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (39 minutes after post)

how old is the guy ur in love with

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love-gir offline Unverified User #
PS | 1 year, 11 months ago (43 minutes after post)

13 or 14

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Dragonlady offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Eagle Lake, ME, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (44 minutes after post)

forgive me, i dont know all the rules to (al elslam) are you allowed to hang out and be friends, just not in love. how do you know you love him

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love-gir offline Unverified User #
PS | 1 year, 11 months ago (45 minutes after post)

thanks kehsihba alot ( i am so so so stupied cuz i am in love with 4 one is 13 and the others 24, 19, 16 ) what can i do for my self how can i stooooooooooooooooop

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PS | 1 year, 11 months ago (49 minutes after post)

i dont know i am just thinking about him alot alot aloooooot and when i see him i just fell like i dont know goooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooood i wanna cryyyyyyy a

about al eslam its there is no love and hanging up with guys … the boy is so so sweet i dont know i sometimes think that he loves me he smiles and try to talk to me he loves me … i dont know

thanks guys ur the best eveeeeeeeeeer i am was waiting for a litel help and i get it thanks thanks rthanks ……..

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Dragonlady offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Eagle Lake, ME, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (50 minutes after post)

i guess for any religion it sounds like if you are in love with 4 different guys you r just crushing on them. kehsihba is right, just take your time and let things be as they are suposed to be. you don’t hve to be inlove just yet.

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Palm Springs, CA, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (50 minutes after post)

ya go with the flow

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kehsihba offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Bangkok, 40, TH | 1 year, 11 months ago (52 minutes after post)

heyy!!..u don need to stop!!..its a normal part of young teenage!!..follin in to one crush after the others..most experience it..even i did!!..just don let thm affect u too much k..i mean don cry!!..srsly dont..at 13..uv got a lot of life more to live..n he can b yours after sum tym!!(who knows..u might want sum1 else by thn)..ur living in a pretty rigid condition..don do nethn stupid n get into trouble..!!..tc

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love-gir offline Unverified User #
PS | 1 year, 11 months ago (54 minutes after post)

i am crazy … but i dont love those guys any more .. i love this guy

what is the meaning of cruch i dont understant it alot

i will not get into trouble i will try to be more carefull

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PS | 1 year, 11 months ago (1 hour, 1 minute after post)

this week we are going to there house .. what can i do to make him u know likes me or sth like this u know tell me anything but not be ur felf i need things like smile and u know ..

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kehsihba offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Bangkok, 40, TH | 1 year, 11 months ago (1 hour, 3 minutes after post)

lissn..its fine!!..u rnt crazy!!..its gud ur serious about a single guy..a crush is basically..feelin lyk ur in love..but u rnt actually in love..its just tht..u want a person..its wot most young people have on other people their attracted to!!..love is much more serious!!..newayz..don b heartbroken!!..ur just 13..thrs alot more lyf left!!

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kehsihba offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Bangkok, 40, TH | 1 year, 11 months ago (1 hour, 5 minutes after post)

uh..wot cn u do??..uhh..if ur sociable families..thts great!!..tok to him nicely..be nice basically!!..be sweet..don over try..just be yourself..thts most important..try strikin up convos on things which interest u both!!

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love-gir offline Unverified User #
PS | 1 year, 11 months ago (1 hour, 7 minutes after post)

ok i will 4 sure do that thanks aooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooote what can i do 4 u guys for ur help gd ur the beeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeesssssssssssssssssssssttttttt

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citycour offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Deerfield, IL, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (6 hours, 25 minutes after post)

I would also perhaps talk to someone who is older in your religion and find out what is actually appropriate. If you shouldn’t be talking to this guy, and you do, you will just get more and more attached and will be more likely to start something that would end in trouble. Think it through before you asked.

Depending on your culture, sometimes a smile is all you need. You can communicate almost anything you want with eye contact and body language. Look him in the eye, smile demurely, look away and look back, etc. If your culture is more open, you can flirt when you talk to him, touch his arm, etc.

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azad_maharsh offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Bombay, 16, IN | 1 year, 11 months ago (15 hours, 17 minutes after post)

ask him directly

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