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Wadhurst, E2, GB

I seem to always drawn to unobtainable people or people that don’t feel the same way as me.

Am i doing something wrong or is it just bad luck?

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Xeno Dragon offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 192 #
Phoenix, AZ, US | 8 months, 1 week ago (3 minutes after post)

No one is out of anyone’s league. However, maybe your problem is that you’re trying to ‘obtain’ them. People are not prizes to be won. The only way you can have a relationship is if you care about the person, and not just what they look like. If you can learn to do that, you’ll be able to have the one you want the most.

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philosophical offline Verified User (8 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Wadhurst, E2, GB | 8 months, 1 week ago (7 minutes after post)

I know what you mean. I do care a hell of a lot it just never works out. Either they don’t like me in that way at all or they do but ignore it. aaarggh.

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Xeno Dragon offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 192 #
Phoenix, AZ, US | 8 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 4 minutes after post)

Have you ever tried asking them out?

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philosophical offline Verified User (8 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Wadhurst, E2, GB | 8 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 5 minutes after post)

Read my other post it pretty much sums up the major headbanging problem that i have!

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An Undisclosed Location | 8 months, 1 week ago (2 hours, 9 minutes after post)

Finding and keeping a partner is a mystery to most, including me. I have struck out many times and even gave up at times. It is frustrating and the younger you are the more suffering you have to look forward to! All kidding aside, love and all that stuff is so abstract and subjective its hard for me to even give advice at all. Keep plugging along, there’s 6 billion people in this world, and one has got to be for you.

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philosophical offline Verified User (8 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Wadhurst, E2, GB | 8 months, 1 week ago (2 hours, 13 minutes after post)

Thanks i guess that’s positive!

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Ell♥ offline Verified User (9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 366 #
Tamworth, 43, GB | 8 months, 1 week ago (3 hours, 14 minutes after post)

be positive!

every man you meet who is wrong, is one less guy you have to meet to get to Mr Right!

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philosophical offline Verified User (8 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Wadhurst, E2, GB | 8 months, 1 week ago (3 hours, 18 minutes after post)

Yeah but of you read my other post you can see the problem a bit clearer.

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Ell♥ offline Verified User (9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 366 #
Tamworth, 43, GB | 8 months, 1 week ago (3 hours, 34 minutes after post)

ill have a look lol. xx

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Indianapolis, IN, US | 8 months, 1 week ago (16 hours, 52 minutes after post)

Hey thanks for your reply and I feel I have the same proplem. I am sorry but all I can tell you is to keep on keepin on and pray for the best

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philosophical offline Verified User (8 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Wadhurst, E2, GB | 8 months, 1 week ago (16 hours, 54 minutes after post)

Thanks

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chadi-89 offline Verified User (8 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
KW | 8 months, 1 week ago (19 hours, 10 minutes after post)

i have the same prob.. but you know keep lookin around you for other people

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