i don’t know what to say other then you have to make the most of what you’ve got i know its corny and i probebly wouldn’t take that edvice myself but mabye your diffrent
no it makes sense.
its just thats what i have been doing my whole life.
but its just hitting me hard right now.
and i feel guilty about whoever i drag into it.
my ex got me a 200 dollar diamond necklace.
my family is more of a fight than a family
ive never got a B in my life and i work my *** off everyday. and i dont get a congradulations ever/
we got a xmas tree today.
not a person in the famliy was speaking to another.
we ate dinner in our rooms.
i cant even breath. im so f’d up the doctors dont even know y.
i know how you feel i fell the same way almost all of the time about 99%of the time and to tell you the truth the only thing that gets me throw it is reading other peoples storys and trying to help them
i dont know whats wrong with my family.
is it right to be to ashamed to have ur best freinds over at ur house?
is it right to want to do anyhting 2 get it out of ur own house?
is it right to play 3 things of music at once just trying 2 drown out everyone?
is it right to be scared to look at ur ex because u know u hurt him so bad. and months later he still wants me.
i’ve ran away from home 5 times so i get the get out of your own house and i drownd my family by going into a feld by my house and crying and my ex that i broke up with over a year later he still likes me and well i don’t have eny friends to invite to my house so i don’t know how that feels
im so sorry.
i know i have not that bad.
i just dont know who 2 reach out 2 anymore.
i always end up telling everyone everything.
i have 2 many freinds that i have told stuff that i didnt mean 2.
i can handle it when my ex just likes me. not when he buys me diamond necklaces.
lol i do that allllll the time like i meet a random person and i just find my self unable to stop talking
yea i dont know what 2 do.
First of all, the necklace was a gift given to you. you did not ask for it. So with that in mind, let it be. say thank you and let it go. :o)
Lesser people are fortunate enough to be blessed with a good set of family. I just hope that there would be one member who would dare tell your parents to start talking and make all of you learn to love home.
theres only me and my sis.
and they just get mad they think its us.
they talk 2 each other. and yell at us.
we are never good enough. yet neither of us drink or do drugs and we both have 4.0’s
are you talking to your sis? what’s your agE?
14. i try but she makes me to sad. its all worse for her. except for the boyfreind thing
anyone i date. even if its just for a few weeks will not let me go. and i feel to sorry for other people about everything. its impossible not to hurt someone. but i just cant accept that..
being on that age is not easy. but you can talk to your sister about this. Both of you should try support each other. Peace in the home is very important as peace in oneself.
do you have an idea why your parents yell at you? try to think instances when they were disappointed or something.
Also, ask for guidance from a teacher living in your area. Talk to the school counselor.
they yell about everything.
if we say something wrong we have a bad attitude
if we get a b on an assigment we arent trying
if we leave our coats on the chair we are to messy
if we dont have many 2 buy xmas presents we dont care about the family.
we are just the worst possible kids.
now that one is rather difficult. BUT you can do something about it. You can work on ways to make them proud of you.
When they say something and you don’t like it, ask for some explanation on the most polite way. no parent would like any child being rude at them.
When you get a B on an assignment, tell your mom and dad the difficult part of your school subject and let them know that you have asked your teachers for an assistance so you will do better next time.
When you leave your coats, say sorry and try not to leave your coats. AND parents are busy people, so help them a bit by not making some mess. :o)
No one has a perfect family i think, everything has loopholes. so do not give up, take away those dark clouds away. :o)
but they dont notice when we do do those things thats what difficult about it
it is soo hard 2 keep a 4.0 but we do. and 2 not drink and do drugs. but we do. and we will go a month or two without leaving something out and they dont notice. then the one time we do we get yelled at like we have beeen doing it every day for the past year.
i do. infront of people. im the happiest person on the planet. christmas is making me sad.
no, who cares about people. Im talking about you. Smile.
good, then everything will be okay.
what am i supposed 2 do with the necklace i cant wear it.
i look at it and it makes me feel horrible
give it back then. I dont think its right to accept something that doesnt belong to you, am i right? it belonged to a girl who loved him back, but thats not you anymore, right?
give it to his friend to give it to him, but write a letter explaining why you need to return it.
schools on x-mas break. and he is going out of state.
what are you doing for the holidays?
Have you and your sister tried talking to your parents about this problem? Sometimes people that do this get so wrapped up in the fighting that they forget there are other people around them that they are hurting. It’s called tunnel vision. They mean to hurt each other but are also hurting you and your sister in the process. If that doesn’t work talk to a counselor or pastor they might be able to help you and your sister out. As for the necklace put it away quit looking at it or donate it to a charity in your exs name. Good luck!
they dont fight with each other.
they fight with us.
Try to repair you relationships, ask yourself what made you get along before along time ago?
i dont remember a time when we did
we got along before my sis messed up once
all of a sudden we werent perfect cuz of one mistake
i never even had a chance, on little thing like skipping a class that she did
they never trusted me.
she got all the chances. and blew them like teenagers do.
so i never got them.
then we go from perfect to the worst most unwanted children ever.
they dont c how all the other kids are worse.
My family has the same problem, they expect too much because they don’t get out enough to realize just how much they have, I wish I could help you more, but anything I say would just be for moral support, so good luck.
thanks.
if i were a parent and i had kids who never drank never snuck out have never been suspended or even gotten detention their teachers always said great things about them they got amazing psat and sat scores and
have strait a’s and dont even have 2 b reminded to do there homework most of the time never even need time to do their homework. and come home every single night no questions asked on time without a need for a curfew.
i would be happy.
why cant they
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