girlfriend help: does anyone know why she does this? - Help.com

i get the same from my bf

I think you already pin pointed the problem, she is showing off. You can either tell her how you feel about it or you can just not phone her when you know she is out with her sister.

They are trying to act cool in front of friends.

Tell her that you don’t appreciate it, and that it would be better if she dropped the act.

And turnabout is fair play.

talk to her and if that doesnt work, try doing it to her, and she’ll freak out, and then explain to her (try and get really specific examples) that that’s what she’s been doing

just do the same to her then she’ll know how it feels - and maybe get the point

Yeh do the same to her, she is showing off. Trying to show her sister that she is the ‘dominant’ one in the relationship most probably.

Maybe she is trying not to get teased by her sibling for being to ‘loved up’.

if you have ever noticed… there are people in this world that is never the same with anybody. with you they could act one way.. with another act another way and even with someone else.. act differently… these kinds of people seem to try to act like the person that they are with so that.. that person will like them… feeling as if they were themselves.. they wouldnt be liked… it is that person that has the real issue here… not you… i suggest you talk to her.. let her know how you are feeling and let her know that this is not fair to you… if that doesnt work.. try giving her some of her own medicine back… see how she likes it..

call her out on it, shes prob embarassed infront of her sister