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Im so depressed..

My boyfriend and me going through some crap.. His grandpa(the one he lives with) said he can never talk to me again.. B/c of my dads g/f calling his g-paw about him coming to a x-mas party with me.. idk wat all was said for real.. but he told him we can talk again.. we love each other and want to be with each other.. what am i to do..? I feel really depressed and upset.. i wanna cut.. but i dont want to..ya know? its not worth it.. but every thing always gets ****** up.. should i break up with him, or should i let it all work out.. b/c we see each other kind of at skool(but not alot) some one please help! it would be greatly appreciated… thanx

Anna

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Janeywaney offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Crickadarn, Y9, GB | 1 year, 11 months ago (2 minutes after post)

i dont quite get what happend, but is it basically a case of his grandad does not want him to see you anymore?? If that is the case and ur boyfrriend still does want to see u then do it in secret, i dont understand why his grand father is being this way, u both have a right to be happy, if u treat him well then its his grandads own insecurities stopping him from seeing u.

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.LOVE&&HATE. offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (4 minutes after post)

you Need To Prove YOur Love It Is True No One Well Come Between You. and You Shoudlnt Let Them But Whatever You DO Dont Get Depressed Thats What they Want Keep Your Head High And Dont Result To Self Harm That Well Only Make matters Worse.

Good Luck :D
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Sasuke Chibi offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (8 minutes after post)

i don’t understand what happend but all do my best!

Whether or not your going out with someone is no one elses bisness. if you love this guy, and he loves you back, who cares? and if gramps don’t like well, thats his problem.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (39 minutes after post)

maybe you could have a chat with his grandad, tell him you have feelings for his grandson and you want a relationship with him and he does with you. but that you respect him enough to want to sort out your issues that he may have with you, because you value his opinion and input in the relationship.

sounds technical but if you say it he’ll think your well mature lol :)

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1 year, 11 months ago (1 week, 1 day after post)

anna, my sweet anna, trust me when i say this, i have been around stephen and raymond a long time and have gotten to know them very well. your problem is not as big as you think, raymond just dosent want stephen to run up the phone bill and dosent want him to hog the phone all day. trust me its not as big a problem as you think. just meet him at breakfast in the morning like we used to and in the hallways between class. its simple really just do your best to see him around school and after the bell rings. hope to hear from you soon,
jacob

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