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I’m constantly searching for something, but I don’t really know what I’m looking for,I often find my self just wondering, looking ,searching for what I don’t know.

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Janeywaney offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 2 Add Friend #
Crickadarn, Y9, GB | 1 year, 11 months ago (10 minutes after post)

must bwe something surely?

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Shaun offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 2 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (12 minutes after post)

I agree, but what?

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Janeywaney offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 2 Add Friend #
Crickadarn, Y9, GB | 1 year, 11 months ago (12 minutes after post)

I dont know, happiness do u think?

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Shaun offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 2 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (14 minutes after post)

idk

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Masquerade offline Verified User (1 year, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (16 minutes after post)

Keep looking. You’ll find it eventually.

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Shaun offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 2 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (17 minutes after post)

How can I find it, if I don’t know what it is?

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Masquerade offline Verified User (1 year, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (18 minutes after post)

Just keep your eyes open. You’ll know it when you see it. You didn’t have to know you were looking for something certain before you knew you were looking.

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Locke offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 Add Friend #
Niceville, FL, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (36 minutes after post)

I can identify. When I was a bit younger, I’d stay up some nights because I just felt like something was missing, like the day was somehow incomplete. I was looking back recently over some things I’d written at the time, and I’m amazed at how much I’ve changed over several years. I was just looking for a purpose, I guess, something to live for, and I found it gradually without realizing it.

One way or another, you’ll discover what you’re missing eventually as well; just let life take its course. It helped me more than I’d have thought to write down what I was thinking in those days; I can look at it now more objectively and I know more fully why I felt the things I did.

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GB | 1 year, 8 months ago (2 months, 3 weeks after post)

Locke wrote:
I can identify. When I was a bit younger, I’d stay up some nights because I just felt like something was missing, like the day was somehow incomplete. I was looking back recently over some things I’d written at the time, and I’m amazed at how much I’ve changed over several years. I was just looking for a purpose, I guess, something to live for, and I found it gradually without realizing it.

One way or another, you’ll discover what you’re missing eventually as well; just let life take its course. It helped me more than I’d have thought to write down what I was thinking in those days; I can look at it now more objectively and I know more fully why I felt the things I did.

What is your purpose now Locke? What have you found?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (3 months, 1 week after post)

I dig books by Joseph Campbell and Frankl’s “Man’s Search for Meaning” for this kind of stuff.

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estaye offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (4 months, 3 weeks after post)

If you look into you, try not to think, just be with you, feel the breeze, the birds, the air you take in and you through out, be with you even if it is for a couple of minutes a day, perhaps this will help receive the answer.

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donotbeafraidtoliv offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (5 months after post)

you don’t have to look for the right thing… it will find you on its own. I know for sure - it happened to me about a year ago. but you have to be ready to give whatever it takes once that “thing” finds you. in a way, it’s so easy, because there is nothing worth living for, but, then again, you are so afraid to mess it all up… but who said life was easy :)

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