friends help: Last night (on New Year’s Eve) I went out with my friend Ryan from work.

Chelsea Miranda

Last night (on New Year’s Eve) I went out with my friend Ryan from work.

We went and hung out with a bunch of his friends in the next town over, there was a huge bon fire and 70 acres of land to ride the four wheelers. We were just hanging out and having a good time, cracking jokes and what not. There was one point tho that me and Ryan were walking around and talking. My dilema with the baby came up, and I started crying and blubbering on and on because my ex is still giving me problems. He hugged me and told me that my ex didnt deserve me and I am too good, and I calmed down. But I felt comforted because Ryan was there, my friend. Until he bent down and kissed me…

I’m not saying it was awful, it was just weird. I wasnt expecting it and i didnt know what to make of it, we were the only ones that werent drinking, so that wasnt an excuse. And afterward he just said, “You are way to special.”
I still have to work with this guy and like i said, can someone help me? I’m just confused…

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gnarlycharlie101 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (2 minutes after post)

well what kind of kiss was it? was it a friendly comforting kiss, or was it a .. differant kind of kiss?

Help me with: I have a scenario, It goes as follows, you can believe it or not, but i would just like some help.

Chelsea Miranda 2 #
Cleburne, TX, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (8 minutes after post)

different. if it was friendly then i wouldnt be so questionable about it

Help me with: My life has changed so much and im terribly scared.

Krissy73 2 #
CA | 1 year, 11 months ago (9 minutes after post)

Just take whats infront of you hunn
You dont wanna regret letting something soo good slip right by you.
It will hurt later on

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gnarlycharlie101 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (12 minutes after post)

( i thought soo )

well, it all depends on how you feel about this guy, it’s obviously a move.

Help me with: I have a scenario, It goes as follows, you can believe it or not, but i would just like some help.

Chelsea Miranda 2 #
Cleburne, TX, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (14 minutes after post)

I guess thats what im questioning. Idk i dont really know him either. I mean we work together about 2 times a week and this was only the second time we had hung out after work. I guess im kind of scared in a way. actually i know i am

Help me with: My life has changed so much and im terribly scared.

gnarlycharlie101 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (17 minutes after post)

well, ask yourself if you think what he said to you was sincere and honest, i would just tell him that you need some time to think things over, it is pretty obvious that you are fairly occupied as of now in regards to your baby.

Help me with: I have a scenario, It goes as follows, you can believe it or not, but i would just like some help.

Chelsea Miranda 2 #
Cleburne, TX, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (22 minutes after post)

yes the sad thing is, i really believe that he was sincere. and i think he has always been with me

Help me with: My life has changed so much and im terribly scared.

gnarlycharlie101 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (23 minutes after post)

well, after only occasionally hanging out with each other, i would spend more time with him, you don’t want to rush into something

Help me with: I have a scenario, It goes as follows, you can believe it or not, but i would just like some help.

Chelsea Miranda 2 #
Cleburne, TX, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (26 minutes after post)

thats true. I dont want that right now, i couldnt deal with it after just losing my baby and all. Everything is still very hard

Help me with: My life has changed so much and im terribly scared.

gnarlycharlie101 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (32 minutes after post)

yes, it doesn’t mean that nothing can be developed out of this relationship, you just need some time and who knows, maybe something will happen in the future when you are more steady and you know him better.

good luck

Help me with: I have a scenario, It goes as follows, you can believe it or not, but i would just like some help.

Chelsea Miranda 2 #
Cleburne, TX, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (33 minutes after post)

yes, indeed, thank you so much for the conversation. My head does feel a little bit more level at this time :) i appreciate it

Help me with: My life has changed so much and im terribly scared.

ashleecraig227 #
Oklahoma City, OK, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (1 hour, 58 minutes after post)

yur pretty and im not gay or bi im just sayig your pretty

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Chelsea Miranda 2 #
Cleburne, TX, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (2 hours after post)

lol thank you

Help me with: My life has changed so much and im terribly scared.

S_lalic 3 #
Buffalo, NY, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (8 hours, 42 minutes after post)

Do u like him take him he obviously wants you take him or gimme his # ill take a wack at him (if u dont want him of course)

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glicher2 21 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (1 day, 14 hours after post)

hey, who knows maybe he’s taking it up another level

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