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I hate myself and my life.

I wish I could fly away to somewhere warm and dry and sunny.

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heart? offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
London, 17, GB | 1 year, 11 months ago (1 minute after post)

unfortunately theres no perfect place.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (3 minutes after post)

it must be cold where you are. i also wish you could find a warmer place to settle yourself. though in reality, we it is facing our own struggles that makes who we are and what we are capable of.
how are you feeling?

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starvingmoose offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 1 year, 11 months ago (5 minutes after post)

That must mean it’s cold there?
Why hate life? It’s the reason you are alive (no duh)…
And I agree with Heart?, there is no perfect place, perfect life, with a little picket fence and it always seems to be spring… You have to make what you have the perfect place.
Even if it’s cold, humid, sunny, foggy, or leaks toxic gas.
Bundle up in blankets, and read a book. or write.
And who knows? With the toxic waste, you may get superhuman powers :)

Systemfix offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Olathe, KS, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (46 minutes after post)

I doubt there is an honest person, over age 15, that hasn’t felt just as you do, on many occassions.
Most of us go through at least one major, personal depression(and a multitude of shorter ‘down’ times)at some point. But, there are usually events that are traumatic, that closely preceed these things.

If you have a problem, or many, that you are not dealing with,,head-on, and decisively, you will not magically be fixed. It will continue, and might seem to have lifted, only to return in a more severe fashion. If you learn at a young age to never be scared, unless your life is in imminent danger, then all the garbage on t.v. news, or some bully at school, or even cancer,,will bounce off of you. Worst thing that can happen from being a polite, honest, fearless hman being, is you will not ignore your importance here, nor will you miss out on the beauty of a place you think you hate.

Think about that, work very hard at cutting off your negativity, every second of the day, for two weeks. Then, do two more, and you will be a completely different person in one month.

It’s(life) very simple, really. = )

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Xeno Dragon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 75 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (5 hours, 15 minutes after post)

I did that. Well, I didn’t fly, I drove. But I’m in Arizona now. If you don’t like your surroundings, change them.

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Xeno Dragon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 75 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (6 hours, 6 minutes after post)

Hm. There are some posts that don’t need religion in them. This was one of them.

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ashelyexquisite offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 26 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 year, 11 months ago (6 hours, 7 minutes after post)

the world isn’t perfect no matter where you go. it suck trust me i know but some times you have to stick with it and try to make it better.

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srnityblu offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Regina, SK, CA | 1 year, 11 months ago (8 hours, 38 minutes after post)

well when you find that sunny place, can I come too? I can stow away in your suitcase….

Oh man, it would be nice if we could just sit on a beach somewhere and let our cares pass us by. Feel the warm sun kiss our skin as the cool sea air lapped at our hair, and the salty water snuggled our toes!

But I’m snug as I can be in my igloo in the Canadian winter… no… not really. I’m enduring the winter here as best as I can. I am always cold during this time… and we Canadians love to Bi*%$ about our weather… we are good at it. lol

Anyway, just wanted to bring things on a lighter note… I hear ya, and if you want to chat… I’m here to listen.

Life is hard, but it can be beneficial if you are willing to take the lessons given and learn from them. That’s all I’ll say for now… fingers freezing…. icicle on the end of my nose…. naw… not really just feels like it. I hate winter.

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