friends help: Do I really help when I poke around here?

nikko

Do I really help when I poke around here?

I don’t mean this for any pity BS, I sincerely wonder. I don’t want to waste my time or yours. Am I simply in a bad mood? Would it help to know what it was like to face my parents in court? (people in my private life always ask). Sometimes I simply wonder what people need from me. Usually they ask for help and I respond if I can though. What if this is merely a dumb question because I’m changing so fast? I am getting pulled back into all the work again and I don’t want to desert my friends here. What if I said ” ‘Hi’ from China or Australia” ? Would it be funny? -having an odd moment here.

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Since writing this post nikko has helped in 3 other users' posts within the last 4 days. nikko is a verified member, has been around for 1 year, 1 month and has 46 posts and 1,362 replies to their name.

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thep 150 #
Kingston, N1, GB | 9 months, 1 week ago (2 minutes after post)

Go for things one at a time. Start with the one that upsets you most.

Dan TL 279 #
La Mirada, CA, US | 9 months, 1 week ago (6 minutes after post)

You do help, you’ve helped me and im sure you’ve helped many more.

Help me with: Do you have someone special in your life, who means a lot to you, do you love them ?

thep 150 #
Kingston, N1, GB | 9 months, 1 week ago (10 minutes after post)

Just by you being on my friends list and I can ask you to help me. Which I have done, should help you to see you are useful. By being there for others when you try to help them, makes you useful.

Without people like you this website would not be here.

TheJDevil 11 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (19 minutes after post)

of course you help.

Help me with: hey, so like…half the people on here, i will not be able to be on help.com as much anymore since school is starting on monday.

brightshine 10 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 44 minutes after post)

Nikko … you have helped me tremendously. I thank for your friendship, insight, forethought and humor.

Help me with: I am so bored …

thep 150 #
Kingston, N1, GB | 9 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 45 minutes after post)

See, we love you.

nikko invited 1 user to read this post 9 months, 1 week ago.

Help me with: It has come to my attention that there is innuendo I don’t want and now I might really need a break.

nikko 33 #
US | 9 months, 1 week ago (3 hours, 26 minutes after post)

well, I asked lil_bit_shi as well, but she might be busy. I guess, I sometimes feel odd. I guess my life isn’t “normal” . It seems to be either really good often, but also really unusual and complicated. I couldn’t make this stuff up if I tried! I need to collect my thoughts because I just got finished getting yelled at on the phone while following up with a friend, but I’ll be back - sigh, co-workers that think I’m “god” and can fix anything in 5 minutes..(zzzzz) Last time I checked I didn’t apply for that job. If you subscribe to that, by all popular accounts, that guy had a very lousy weekend :) (sorry just needed to laugh)

Help me with: It has come to my attention that there is innuendo I don’t want and now I might really need a break.

Shie 193 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 9 months, 1 week ago (3 hours, 27 minutes after post)

im here…. hold on.. im reading..

Help me with: ~Do You Need A Proxy For Myspace~

thep 150 #
Kingston, N1, GB | 9 months, 1 week ago (3 hours, 32 minutes after post)

I was going to reply but then lil_bit_shy showed up. I’ll let you two get to grips with this.

Shie 193 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 9 months, 1 week ago (3 hours, 32 minutes after post)

well… i have to say… feeling odd is what i feel to be when you are just overwhelmed by sooo much in your life that is going on all at once.. you need to take a few hours and just chill… relax… shut everyone out.. and relax.. do something that you yourself wants to do… dont jump for anyone.. but for you… even if you do this once a week.. schedule it if you have too… you will notice that you will find that the stress will release a little bit… as for getting yelled at on the phone.. what happened? why did they get mad? as for the co worker thing.. yeah.. i know all too well on having to do your job and the job of another because they either dont get it.. or they are just too lazy to learn… sucks.. because even though you do both jobs.. you only get paid for the one… my suggestion… sit them down and show them how to do it themselves… i mean.. its good to help people… but when they take advantage… thats when you need to be strong and learn to say NO .. as foryou being on here to help others… yes.. you are a great help… and a good friend.. so.. thanks for being here… even if you dont know what to say to someone about a certain post… just by letting them know that you dont understand .. it shows that you care.. and that is the best feeling for someone ever… so thanks… hugs..

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nikko 33 #
US | 9 months, 1 week ago (5 hours, 20 minutes after post)

Thep, wasn’t trying to exclude you -was simply looking for my friends that happened to be online. :) I’m not ok right now :(

Help me with: It has come to my attention that there is innuendo I don’t want and now I might really need a break.

Shie 193 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 9 months, 1 week ago (5 hours, 24 minutes after post)

whats going on nikko?

Help me with: ~Do You Need A Proxy For Myspace~

Shie 193 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 9 months, 1 week ago (5 hours, 25 minutes after post)

i have msn messenger if you would like to talk…

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nikko 33 #
US | 9 months, 1 week ago (7 hours, 6 minutes after post)

I might have to reinstall mine for some odd reason. I have to take this call, BRB if you are still around. Sigh, LA doesn’t see I’m 4 hours behind them sometimes.
-n

Help me with: It has come to my attention that there is innuendo I don’t want and now I might really need a break.

nikko 33 #
US | 9 months, 1 week ago (7 hours, 7 minutes after post)

ahead - whatever, will get back ASAP and then get to my shouts.

Help me with: It has come to my attention that there is innuendo I don’t want and now I might really need a break.

Shie 193 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 9 months, 1 week ago (7 hours, 8 minutes after post)

lol…. okie dokie…

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An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (14 hours, 20 minutes after post)

hello Nikko. hmmm just saying hi to you. aww hun. i do not know exactly what is going on, but you are always useful around here, and what’s good thing about you? you always put people first before yourself.
and i so love your for that! just a mail away hun. :)

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