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i feel like my heart is slowly being ripped to shreds

and i cant stand it, i have never been into a relationship, but there is this girl that ever since highschool i have always liked her and i actually asked her out, but she ended up telling me she thinks that she just sees us as friends, i cant stop thinking about her and its really upsetting me how do i get rid of this? make my mind go to something else?

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nextstar offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (5 minutes after post)

Try to date some other girl , i think you just have a crush on her ; It won’t last don’t worry .

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jess03079 offline Unverified User #
GB | 1 year, 11 months ago (37 minutes after post)

Get your mates and go out and do some guy stuff. Stay away from this girl for a while. Do somethings that keep her off your mind. Don’t go around avoiding her at all costs, but give yourself some space. Don’t worry, it’s not the end of the world. I promise.

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Oster: Gettin' It. offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (59 minutes after post)

I don’t know what will work for you, but I can say that when you get your heart back, you’ll be able to fall in love. There’s plenty of people worthy of your love and full attention.

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TulipsDream offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Akron, OH, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (3 hours, 21 minutes after post)

go ask other people out. go to clubs and partys keep your mind off of it

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RC-walsh offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
GB | 1 year, 11 months ago (5 hours, 19 minutes after post)

i dont you didnt like..break up but i like this quote and u might to o :P

“the best part of breaking up is finding someone else you can’t get enough of”

go find her :)

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Million Dollar Chick offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Manhattan, NY, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (11 hours, 28 minutes after post)

I think you need to get over her. She’s probably not good enough for u anyway. move on. you’ll find somebody else better

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1 year, 11 months ago (3 days, 2 hours after post)

thank you all! helps me feel much better and nextstar you were right it was just a little crush and im over it now feeling ready for anything, thanks for the advice you people are so great!

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Oster: Gettin' It. offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (3 days, 11 hours after post)

Awesome.

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